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Old 02-08-2016, 08:35 PM
 
Location: Pa
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And...HELLO PEOPLE...what about the kid he is supposed to be mentoring? What a crap coach you are, OP. ****ing around with a family like that.
Yepppers, he better check himself before he wrecks himself.

 
Old 02-08-2016, 09:42 PM
 
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1.) OLDER women flirt the same way as women your age. We don't have some magical method that we learn once we hit a certain age. :eyeroll:

2.) Coach your kids and be a mentor, and establish some damn boundaries. You are there to be a role model, not to hunt *****.
 
Old 02-08-2016, 09:49 PM
 
Location: Texas
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All pointless and irrelevant as she has kids who don't need any drama y'all could stew up.

Enjoy the harmless flirtation and mutual ego-stroking.

Not every offer has to be taken up on, btw. I don't know if that's against a man code, but you don't have to bang or consider banging every decent piece of ass that comes your way. Just a thought.
 
Old 02-09-2016, 11:34 AM
 
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FYI, I care an infinite amount for the child I coach.....another reason to close this case.

Done. I'm convinced. Nothing will come of this but badness. If she continues to flirt, I will act aloof and play the fool.

Thanks all.
Act aloof and play the fool? Instead of calling her on it and suggest that she stop?
 
Old 02-09-2016, 12:20 PM
 
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Act aloof and play the fool? Instead of calling her on it and suggest that she stop?
IMO he should act aloof and play the fool rather than engage her.

If he calls her on it and tells her to stop, it could embarrass her and make her angry. You know, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned." She's in a position to make things very difficult for him if she chose to.

Better to act like he doesn't even know what's going on. She'll move on to someone else soon enough.
 
Old 02-09-2016, 03:43 PM
 
Location: NY>FL>VA>NC>IN
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Act aloof and play the fool? Instead of calling her on it and suggest that she stop?
Um, he is a guy, enjoying the attention, not a priest or Grandma.
Your suggestion is unrealistic, like he's gonna say, "I realize you are flirting and I find that highly inappropriate due to your married status".
Cmon now.

I have never witnessed a guy yet who would do that unless the female was some hideous beast.
 
Old 02-09-2016, 03:48 PM
 
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Um, he is a guy, enjoying the attention, not a priest or Grandma.
Your suggestion is unrealistic, like he's gonna say, "I realize you are flirting and I find that highly inappropriate due to your married status".
Cmon now.

I have never witnessed a guy yet who would do that unless the female was some hideous beast.
He is a teacher and this is happening during his work time...with kids, no less. He has a position of responsibility here. This isn't happening randomly at a bus stop. YES, some decorum is required and boundaries are definitely required. Boundaries are doubly required when dealing with children in a position of responsibility.

How would you feel if, instead of teaching your daughter, for example, her teacher was heavily discussing politics, climate change and her husband's chilly aloof fingers with the dad of one of the other kids while breathing down his shirt in her desire to ---k him? I mean would you be good with that? Your tax dollars at work?
 
Old 02-09-2016, 03:50 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Act aloof and play the fool? Instead of calling her on it and suggest that she stop?
Poking the bear is not the best strategy here.
 
Old 02-09-2016, 03:51 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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To be honest, I don't really see the "blatant flirting." I'm a very friendly, touchy feely kind of person. It doesn't mean I want to sleep with anyone.
 
Old 02-09-2016, 06:51 PM
 
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To be honest, I don't really see the "blatant flirting." I'm a very friendly, touchy feely kind of person. It doesn't mean I want to sleep with anyone.
It is too bad when people confuse good manners and friendliness as flirting.
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