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Yes if they ask or if what they are doing is self-destructive like abusing drugs or non-productive like laying around the house all day.
What was the problem with this girl that you felt like you had to improve her without her permission?
She asked me to help her, like helping her with her grammar and being more active. Again my intentions were good inside and I did not communicate it badly at all to her at all but she obviously took it to heart and became sensitive about it or who knows maybe there is another guy in the picture that I am unaware of and this is all an excuse.
Many people don't realize that women play these cards at the right time when needed. Most time men take the blame and criticism when things go south. It's really hard to tell at times.
You can find tons of lame advice online about the 30 day no contact rule. The truth is that it works to an extent, but it won't work miracles.
First of all, you going into it with the intention of playing games, and that already means you'll fail. No contact should be used to distance yourself from a relationship and gain perspective, not to "make her miss you" or BS like that. Once you are away from the relationship for a month or more, only then can you make an informed decision about whether or not you want to get back together.
But I have a feeling you are going to play games anyway, so you're probably destined to mess it up. If you do, be prepared for any drama coming your way.
She asked me to help her, like helping her with her grammar and being more active. Again my intentions were good inside and I did not communicate it badly at all to her at all but she obviously took it to heart and became sensitive about it or who knows maybe there is another guy in the picture that I am unaware of and this is all an excuse.
Many people don't realize that women play these cards at the right time when needed. Most time men take the blame and criticism when things go south. It's really hard to tell at times.
Some women man, some. Don't go down that road of grouping all women together.
Now if she asks you then it is what it is. I think you should just move on with your life and keep yourself busy. If she wants to reach out to you great but don't bet on it.
She asked me to help her, like helping her with her grammar and being more active. Again my intentions were good inside and I did not communicate it badly at all to her at all but she obviously took it to heart and became sensitive about it or who knows maybe there is another guy in the picture that I am unaware of and this is all an excuse.
Many people don't realize that women play these cards at the right time when needed. Most time men take the blame and criticism when things go south. It's really hard to tell at times.
Oh never mind. You clearly have no respect for her. Go ahead and send the email. She deserves far better than you in her life.
You can find tons of lame advice online about the 30 day no contact rule. The truth is that it works to an extent, but it won't work miracles.
First of all, you going into it with the intention of playing games, and that already means you'll fail. No contact should be used to distance yourself from a relationship and gain perspective, not to "make her miss you" or BS like that. Once you are away from the relationship for a month or more, only then can you make an informed decision about whether or not you want to get back together.
But I have a feeling you are going to play games anyway, so you're probably destined to mess it up. If you do, be prepared for any drama coming your way.
As for the email, no, don't send it.
No really I will stay away and go on with my life. If she reaches out then we will see. I'm not holding my breathe. Yes there is a lot of information online on what to do and what no to do and I think they are really broad methods. My conclusion is that time and space heal both sides and eventually will answer all questions.
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