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Old 02-11-2016, 07:13 AM
 
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what i mean by the talk is the "are we in that relationship" yet or "what is going on"

i always heard a guy should never say that first

it should be the girl

thoughts?
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:16 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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If it is something pressing on my mind, I bring it up. I think its stupid to wallow in silence. I often get an answer I don't want to hear, and while that sucks, its still better than wondering and fretting. Scr*w these male/female games.
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:16 AM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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Why wouldn't a man bring this up? Sounds like an odd "rule" to me.

If one wants a real, long lasting relationship one needs to forget the supposed "rules" and act from the heart.
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:17 AM
 
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Do people go out with EACH OTHER or some kind of rule book? Does no one on this forum actually relate to and interact with actual other people?
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:19 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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i always heard a guy should never say that first

it should be the girl
Says who?
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:20 AM
 
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This is called "communication". Do it.
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:24 AM
 
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i just heard it makes the guy look clingy or needy
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:26 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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i just heard it makes the guy look clingy or needy
from ... ???

If you're afraid of looking needy, then don't whine and don't ask it. Phrase it in a way that states what YOU feel and what YOU want, with the understanding that she may feel differently.
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:28 AM
 
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i just heard it makes the guy look clingy or needy
Why would what it "looks like" be of any concern to a couple that is at that stage of a relationship? Surely if you are contemplating that level of commitment, you've gone beyond such insecurities and game-playing?

You make it sound like these two people are utter strangers to each other!
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:30 AM
 
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im not really sure, its just what i heard

theres a girl i like and we have been talking and going out on dates

i mean i asked her on a date and she said "shesd lobe to"
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