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OP, your best bet is to not contact her again EVER!!! there is a reason she is your EX. its time for you to move on from her and get on with your life.
i have said it before, i will say it again, ALL relationships are by nature temporary. and the minute you come to grips with that, the better off you will be. you can certainly invest your emotions into a relationship, but there will come a time when it ends, and you need to be able to move on.
I fully agree with this. In addition, I don't see how the letter would "get her back." Nowhere does it say that you want to get back together. If I got a letter like that I would feel overwhelmed by the play-by-play of our relationship and the "haha" sprinkled throughout would just annoy the bejesus out of me. It's blatantly transparent that you hope that reminding her of all the good times will spark some sort of positive reaction. It won't. Sorry you lost her, but given the smothering and crying, it's over, man. Better luck next time.
It maybe too late but just buy her a nice Valentines day card and tell her you still care.
Keep it short and simple.
One post and won't be back.
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