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No but the dates have been relatively cheap. Though there have been a few dinners included in this mix. She is not high maintenance in how much dates/restaurants cost. This is more about my TIME...from a cost benefit standpoint. However, time is probably more precious than money...
Have you kissed her out of interest?, I know it's daft to ask someone after 7 dates but........
I wonder if you told her that all you want is just sex. She would not waste her time on you.
I know it's bad but could you imagine if he takes our advice and moves on and then gets a text from her....... " but why!? ................I really wanted to have sex with you! ".........
so your just interested in the sex? your obviously not interested in spending time with this person and getting to know them. move on and find someone just for sex.
Of course, there have been kisses. Many kisses..from deep French kisses to standard issue kisses.
Then, she's just not into you... or it.
(Then we have other discussions regarding how it is always too soon, with women being dumped after doing so, being percieved as a HO, when they thought they might be heading toward a relationship).
My boyfriend and I are by no means prudes or old-fashioned. We are very much into sex. But we didn't have sex until 4 months after we started dating. I wanted to get to know him first before I felt comfortable about sleeping with him, and he never once pressured me into sleeping with him before I was ready. In fact, he told me later on that he thought it was pretty cool that I had taken the time to get to know him first. I think the difference between us and you, though, is that my boyfriend and I were looking for more than just somebody to have sex with. You, on the other hand, don't seem interested in getting to know the girl you're dating as a person first. You just want to sleep with her. There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but it doesn't look like it's going to happen, so you probably have to move on.
But if I am wrong, and you are interested in her as a potential girlfriend, then you will have to wait until she's ready.
so your just interested in the sex? your obviously not interested in spending time with this person and getting to know them. move on and find someone just for sex.
I don't go on a 7 dates with a woman if all I want is sex. This is a record for me...7 dates and no sex.
I don't go on a 7 dates with a woman if all I want is sex. This is a record for me...7 dates and no sex.
You don't come across in this single post as a guy who is interested in "getting to know someone" before you have sex with them. One post, however, is not a very reliable indicator.
Invest more time in getting to know her than on the lack of sex is one suggestion.
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................I really wanted to have sex with you! 
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