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Old 02-23-2016, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Your mom's house
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Eh, two way street, the women waiting are getting it somewhere else almost all the time.
Not true. Try hanging out with classy women sometime. Your world will totally open up!
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Old 02-23-2016, 03:35 PM
 
Location: H-Tine, Texas
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..And THIS is why many women won't "give it up" before date 3. Losers like this don't deserve sex.
I don't get down like the guy you're quoting, but I'd be willing to bet he and I are far more in touch with the reality than you are.

Like other posters have said, it's a two-way street, y'all. Guys just didn't develop a mindset that they can sleep with a woman within the first few dates. For every woman that won't "give it up" before date 3, as you say, there's one that will. I'm not placing blame on anyone, I'm stating that the idea of having sex with a woman after x amount of dates/time didn't just get pulled out of thin air.

Interesting that you used the word "deserve", as if being patient with a woman and not counting dates somehow makes you deserving of sleeping with her.
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Old 02-23-2016, 04:25 PM
 
Location: Your mom's house
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I don't get down like the guy you're quoting, but I'd be willing to bet he and I are far more in touch with the reality than you are.

Like other posters have said, it's a two-way street, y'all. Guys just didn't develop a mindset that they can sleep with a woman within the first few dates. For every woman that won't "give it up" before date 3, as you say, there's one that will. I'm not placing blame on anyone, I'm stating that the idea of having sex with a woman after x amount of dates/time didn't just get pulled out of thin air.

Interesting that you used the word "deserve", as if being patient with a woman and not counting dates somehow makes you deserving of sleeping with her.
Well, yeah, being a gentleman does make a guy more deserving of sleeping with a woman, rather than some pig who's just in it to "tap dat azz", or whatever that classeh dude said that I quoted. And you're the one who's talking about "counting dates". If a guy is actually "counting dates", and not wanting to get to know the woman as a real person, rather than just a warm hole, then that guy is a loser, who does not deserve sex.
I've said a million times here (if you'd actually read the thread..) that, yeah, tons of women screw guys the night they meet them. The reason there are piggish guys out there is because tons of women allow them to be that way. The thing I take issue with is the loser guys, who say women are "prudes", "hate sex", or, my favorite, "have experienced trauma", just because she wants to get to know a guy a little first, before jumping in the sack with him. To each their own, but if a guy puts down a woman and judges her because she wants to wait more than 2 minutes to lift her skirt, then that guy is an idiot who needs to grow up.
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Old 02-23-2016, 05:42 PM
 
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Stop wasting her time and move on. You're clearly looking for two different things.


What makes you think you're worthy of her body? Are the two of you in love?
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Old 02-23-2016, 05:48 PM
 
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Stop wasting her time and move on. You're clearly looking for two different things.


What makes you think you're worthy of her body? Are the two of you in love?
The OP already said he's moving on, about 10 pages ago. The rest is the usual C-D gender debate on the issue.
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Old 02-23-2016, 05:57 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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The OP already said he's moving on, about 10 pages ago. The rest is the usual C-D gender debate on the issue.
What we've had all these pages of entertainment for nothing then basically???










( LMAO! )
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:30 PM
 
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Eh, two way street, the women waiting are getting it somewhere else almost all the time.
Absolutely. Just because she's not sleeping with the first guy she's been out with 7, 8, 9 times she's still almost certainly sleeping with another guy - and is just using the first guy so he can take her out to dinner, etc.
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:32 PM
 
Location: Your mom's house
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I hope the above poster is being sarcastic. That's very sad if guys think all women are just using them as a meal ticket. I wonder what your childhoods were like, if you all are this bitter about women?
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:33 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Absolutely. Just because she's not sleeping with the first guy she's been out with 7, 8, 9 times she's still almost certainly sleeping with another guy - and is just using the first guy so he can take her out to dinner, etc.
Fascinating that a woman couldn't possibly be sleeping with no one at all. And you'd know this because you're a woman. Oh wait...
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:37 PM
 
Location: Illinois
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Fascinating that a woman couldn't possibly be sleeping with no one at all. And you'd know this because you're a woman. Oh wait...
No, that's completely out of the realm of possibility! Women only use men for meals and sex when they feel like it! That's all we do!!!!1!!
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