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In my experience, when I was dating, a man calling me "sexy" meant he was ultimately seeking sex. Someone said to tell him you're celibate, it's clever. See what his reaction is, and if he sticks around, it'll show he is seeing more with you than just sex. It's a tried and true way of weeding out the players. I had decided to be celibate when I turned about 25, and every guy I dated from then just left out the door or kept trying to seduce me to sleep with them when they found out. Ultimately, they did not stick around. The only one who did, is my loving husband of now 4 years!
In my experience, when I was dating, a man calling me "sexy" meant he was ultimately seeking sex. Someone said to tell him you're celibate, it's clever. See what his reaction is, and if he sticks around, it'll show he is seeing more with you than just sex. It's a tried and true way of weeding out the players. I had decided to be celibate when I turned about 25, and every guy I dated from then just left out the door or kept trying to seduce me to sleep with them when they found out. Ultimately, they did not stick around. The only one who did, is my loving husband of now 4 years!
Celibacy till marriage?
You can want sex, and not be a player.
Not surprising most didn't stick around, but glad you ultimately found someone
Yeap, he is baiting you for sex. Otherwise he'd call you pretty.
Whether a man calls a woman pretty, beautiful, gorgeous on a date (hes thinking: you're sexy and I cant wait to bed you someday) Lol. I think, some of you are making this a bigger deal than it is.
Understand, the simplistic male mind, and how it works
Whether a man calls a woman pretty, beautiful, gorgeous on a date (hes thinking: you're sexy and I cant wait to bed you someday) Lol. I think, some of you are making this a bigger deal than it is.
Understand, the simplistic male mind, and how it works
I don't want people to analyze every.single.frikkin.word that comes out of my mouth looking for ways to judge me when they don't really know me. Most men know women like complements, but many men are not always smooth. I'm sure not.
Guy that says I'm sexy after the first date? (or even before?) no big deal. Guy that thinks/says I'm sexy but is a gentleman enough to wait until I decide I'm ready? PRICELESS!
I don't understand, though. If a guy JUST wants sex, what is wrong with a woman accepting that, and enjoying the sex also? If I'd waited for a man to commit to me before I had sex with him, I wouldn't have had sex with anyone in the past 10 years. Because I've been able to get over this notion that dating is only for long term commitment, and instead enjoy dating for fun, I get to have sex once in a while. Good sex. Have I ever felt this recreational activity interfered with me finding Mr. Right Long Term? Nope. I've learned a lot about men and sex and relationships in that time.
Lots of people say, that's a waste of my time. I don't get that either. For example, I met a guy yesterday, after 2 weeks of online communications, who indicated in some subtle ways he was looking forward to sex. If I didn't like him at all, that would be the end of it. But I really did like him. So if he calls and asks me out again, which I think he will do, I'm not going to say "Oh, that's a waste of my time" because he wants sex. It isn't like I have Guy #2 on the other line waiting to go out with me. Or I have better things to do. (clean out closets?) To me, it is worth a shot to find out if by chance this guy wants sex and is ALSO is capable of negotiating a relationship that works for both of us. Plus, I'll just get to have sex, and maybe a fun evening out. He doesn't even have to buy me dinner. And if he IS the right guy for me, the fact that I had sex with him before we were somehow committed, is NOT going to turn him off from an LTR.
Whether a man calls a woman pretty, beautiful, gorgeous on a date (hes thinking: you're sexy and I cant wait to bed you someday) Lol. I think, some of you are making this a bigger deal than it is.
Understand, the simplistic male mind, and how it works
And just think if a woman is on a date, and feels he doesn't want sex at all?!!
Whole new problem, whole new post!!!
Doesn't even matter if the guy only wants sex at this point. Aren't you an awesome enough chick for him to start liking you for more than that in a couple dates?
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It doesn't matter if a ( man ) tell you his (date) that you are
( SEXY) The only thing that matters is if he know that ( no ) is the same thing as (stop ) and that when a ( woman ) says
( go ) a man just has to GO GO GO until she says ( stop )!!!
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