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Old 02-23-2016, 08:48 AM
 
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Marrying at 22 is a bad idea.
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Old 02-23-2016, 08:50 AM
 
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You should get your head out of your pink princess cloud and focus on moving out of your toxic trailer. JMO.
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:19 AM
 
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At that age, I highly doubt he's even thinking about marriage.
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:20 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Im 22
You ARE too young!
Meet more people, know more people, get some experience how to select your mate.
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:33 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You haven't even known him for over a month.

I know it's tempting to have someone rescue you from your situation, but marrying him is not the answer.
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:43 AM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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You haven't even known him for over a month.
I must have missed that. Why would you want to marry someone you basically just met? I don't have a problem with the age thing like so many here do, I married young and it worked out great, but at least get to know him first.
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:46 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I must have missed that. Why would you want to marry someone you basically just met? I don't have a problem with the age thing like so many here do, I married young and it worked out great, but at least get to know him first.
Based on what we know of the OP, she's in a crappy living situation and has a fantasy of being a Disney princess. She's looking for any opportunity to be whisked away by a handsome prince.
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:47 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Based on what we know of the OP, she's in a crappy living situation and has a fantasy of being a Disney princess. She's looking for any opportunity to be whisked away by a handsome prince.
Sounds mature.
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Old 02-23-2016, 09:52 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Im 22
Yikes. Very young. I got married at 22 and while it (miraculously) worked out fine for us (partly because we were both already living on our own, gainfully employed, and put off having babies), in hindsight we were still way too young to get married. Focus on improving your situation, rather than looking for an escape through another person.

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Old 02-23-2016, 10:01 AM
 
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I married at 22. It was a disaster. Nine year disaster. To go back and do things differenly, I would have taken a different path.
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