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Old 03-02-2016, 09:42 AM
 
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You said there were no other guys.


Just to repeat, there is nothing wrong with the guys you've chosen, it's something wrong with you.

Glad you're using an estimator instead of a counselor.
This contradicts every opinion given about my exes. I got a wrath of crap about the guy that was recently out of prison. So Nothing wrong with him?
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Old 03-02-2016, 09:44 AM
 
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Look at it from his perspective. Friendly, good-looking female customer offers him a beer on the job... first thing that runs through his head is "Oh man, she so wants to **** me!" But eventually it dawns on him that it's not going to happen, so he let's you down gently with flattery.

I really don't want to join in with the semi-daily "Kick LowonLuck while she's down" gamut, but I just find it baffling that a woman with that much experience with men (not necessarily sexually, but just in general) could be so lacking in self-awareness and how you are probably coming across.
I feel like guys treat me like one of the guys at times. But I get how that happens.
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Old 03-02-2016, 09:46 AM
 
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I feel like guys treat me like one of the guys at times. But I get how that happens.
If you know how it happens, ever think of trying to change it?
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Old 03-02-2016, 09:47 AM
 
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I am very polite, but I am also professional.

He wasn't your guest. He was there about a job, so he would have been your employee.
Word. A beer OP? If he's drinking now, I'd hate to see how unprofessional he is later.

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Old 03-02-2016, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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My life is pretty together. Got a stable job, couple houses, great kids, no debt except houses which can be sold for a profit, years salary in savings, etc.

I would be thrilled if I could meet a guy that has everything I have. I am not even trying to be that picky.

What happened to your posts where you wish you had financial help with your groceries and all that?
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Old 03-02-2016, 09:52 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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I feel like guys treat me like one of the guys at times. But I get how that happens.
That can be a good thing or a bad thing, depending on their intentions and how well they know you. Sometimes it's friendly, but sometimes it can be deliberate disrespect and a joke at your expense.
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Old 03-02-2016, 09:53 AM
 
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If you know how it happens, ever think of trying to change it?
Girl, I have been a tom boy since birth. Please do tell me how I suddenly can find interest in make up and fashion, instead of cars, atvs, guns, and motorcycles?
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Old 03-02-2016, 09:55 AM
 
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What happened to your posts where you wish you had financial help with your groceries and all that?
I do wish I had that!
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Old 03-02-2016, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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This contradicts every opinion given about my exes. I got a wrath of crap about the guy that was recently out of prison. So Nothing wrong with him?
They are what they are, most women would not date them.

You did.


That's the equation.
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Old 03-02-2016, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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I can be quietly sitting on a park bench, have a stranger sit down and I will know way too much about them in a very short period of time. Happens all the time. What do you just stand up and walk away?


Why is it that you are here asking for advice?


You keep defending everything and you don't seem to take any good advice to heart in any of the previous threads you have started.
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