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Old 02-10-2008, 06:30 PM
 
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maybe you got good instincts?
listen to them?
I am definitely listening to them.

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Just relax! Remember all of us have had to experience a first date at one point or another and we all survived it. Sure you're going to be nervous, we all were. You sound like a super nice guy and that will come through to her. I think that if the two of you get together for a walk through the park, a zoo visit, touring a museum, bowling, or another activity it might be less pressure on you because you'll be doing something together and that will generate conversation in itself. Think of it as going out with a potential friend. Have fun, be a gentleman, and get to know who she is. Let her do most of the talking if you get nervous. I always ask myself what is the worst thing that can happen and in this case it's none too bad. The worst thing that can happen is that you have one awkward date, but the potential for a new friend or more is worth that risk. We're all pulling for you!
I hope the fact that I'm a cool guy would get to her I definite would keep that in check w.r.t having her do most of the talking since. Again I am a quiet one and talk less; hope it doesn't blow it up for me.

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What's wrong with being a virgin?
I'm still a virgin at 28, there's nothing wrong with that.
I pray that you and I keep it that way until "we" find the right person.
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Old 02-10-2008, 06:45 PM
 
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Sounds like you've already gotten a lot of good advice here so I won't rehash the same things over and over. Keep us updated on how it goes and welcome to the board
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Old 02-10-2008, 11:29 PM
 
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What's wrong with being a virgin?
I'm still a virgin at 28, there's nothing wrong with that.
There's nothing wrong with it!
Just very alien to me!
Like a grey! I mean, if there are ETs - as long as they're not trying to kill or eat us - there's nothing "wrong" with it...
But it'd be pretty freaky!
I guess if you don't know what you're missing...
But once you find out you're gonna really wanna make up for lost time!!!
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Old 02-11-2008, 05:02 AM
 
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There's nothing wrong with it!
Just very alien to me!
Like a grey! I mean, if there are ETs - as long as they're not trying to kill or eat us - there's nothing "wrong" with it...
But it'd be pretty freaky!
I guess if you don't know what you're missing...
But once you find out you're gonna really wanna make up for lost time!!!
Not sure where you're from but there's definitely plenty of virgins out there. Not sure how it is freaky as you were also a virgin once. Better get used to it
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Old 02-11-2008, 05:28 AM
 
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30 years is a long a$$ time without even touching a female (unless purchased). If you've gone this long without a lady, why bother now? Nothing wrong with being alone -- more girls for me!
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Old 02-11-2008, 05:37 AM
 
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30 years is a long a$$ time without even touching a female (unless purchased). If you've gone this long without a lady, why bother now? Nothing wrong with being alone -- more girls for me!
I'm pretty sure I speak for many other ladies when I say, this girl wouldn't touch anyone with a screen name "The Stud" with a ten foot pole whereas if I were single, I'd try a date with the OP. "The Stud"? You trying to make up for something you lack there, buddy?
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Old 02-11-2008, 05:51 AM
 
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I'm pretty sure I speak for many other ladies when I say, this girl wouldn't touch anyone with a screen name "The Stud" with a ten foot pole whereas if I were single, I'd try a date with the OP. "The Stud"? You trying to make up for something you lack there, buddy?
You might be speaking for unattractive broads with coke-bottle glasses and a camel unfiltered cig hangin' out their mouth, but u aint speaking for women that want me, hun. I'm 100% stud through and through. In and out. Up and down. Back and around.
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Old 02-11-2008, 05:56 AM
 
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but u aint speaking for women that want me, hun. .
And this group consists of who? Your mom, your sister, and your great aunt Elda?
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Old 02-11-2008, 05:59 AM
 
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And this group consists of who? Your mom, your sister, and your great aunt Elda?
I see that you want a piece of this. Sorry, but you're just gonna have to wait your turn. Pick a number. Stand in line. Win the lottery.

The Stud has spoken.
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Old 02-11-2008, 06:19 AM
 
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I pray that you and I keep it that way until "we" find the right person.

npumcrisz,
Thank you, I agree.
I think you and I have each done a smart thing.
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