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Old 03-05-2016, 12:11 AM
 
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So there is this woman that I seem tog et along with really well. She texts me morning at 8 or 9am everyday and we don't stop until 8 or 9pm at night. We meet at least once a week for lunch, and sometimes more for dinner or coffee and we go to the gym at the same time. we seem to get along well and we can talk lots and laugh a lot together.

But today we were talking about celebrities and she mentioned that she is not into blonde guys. She then said no offense, cause I am blonde. So does that mean she is not into me? was all the above just a bit of a waste?
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Old 03-05-2016, 04:31 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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Really? Worried about the color of your hair? She is spending time with you repeatively.... that's all should matter. You don't see how important it is that a woman is willing and wanting to spend time with you; dinners coffee at the gym? Do you really want the people you date tread lightly in fear that they will make you feel insecure and leave?
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Old 03-05-2016, 04:44 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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She may not be into blonde men, but on such minor matters, her opinion can change. Continue to enjoy her company and see what happens.
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Old 03-05-2016, 05:12 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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What's wrong with asking her?
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Old 03-05-2016, 05:16 AM
 
Location: california
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She may only be testing your resolve or gullibility.
Does she have the influence to remake you ?
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Old 03-05-2016, 05:58 AM
 
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Move on immediately. She was clearly saying you're a loser with NO chance.
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Old 03-05-2016, 06:05 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Don't worry she is just being dumb.
You should of came back with I'm not into asymmetrical faces.
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Old 03-05-2016, 06:15 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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So, pick up a box of Just For Men, and color it a nice shade of grecian black.

I'm kidding. Women generally aren't too hung up on a certain "type", to the extent that we will rule out a potential mate over hair color. You've got to ask her though, because she might be an outlier.
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Old 03-05-2016, 10:18 AM
 
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Blonde hair & blue eyes.....on men--
My kryptonite

Ridiculously enough tho,
past few guys are all brunettes....
So personality counts
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Old 03-05-2016, 10:22 AM
 
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Dye it a different color.
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