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Old 03-07-2016, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Dothan AL
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Originally Posted by LowonLuck View Post
Please a college degree really does not mean anything. I would just like to try something different. My last ex has a college degree. He also spent 10 out of the last 20 years in jail or prison. See my point?
Not true at all! Try getting an accounting degree, or engineering. You will have a good job.

 
Old 03-07-2016, 06:45 PM
 
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I would work the roommate angle.

Btw? I got 2 degrees while single parenting. No parents paying for them or giving me a free place to live. I work FT right now and I still have 3 kids, but one is in college himself now, AND I'm a FT grad student.

Priorities.
I am open to a roommate.

Yeah I don't have parents paying for anything for me and have not since I got my drivers license at 16. I moved out shortly after and have been on my own since. Partying? Lol. I worked 2-3 jobs while in part time high school so I could support myself. I bought my first house at 20.

I tried college. By the time I got to classes at night, I fell asleep because I was exhausted. At this point, I have been out of school 20 years. I also have zero desire to go back. I really feel it would be a waste of time and money if I have no want to be there.
 
Old 03-07-2016, 06:47 PM
 
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I think you are very comfortable with him and able to sleep well. tell him that.
I did. I think he is content with the way things are now and does not want to change anything.
 
Old 03-07-2016, 06:50 PM
 
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Originally Posted by LowonLuck View Post
Please a college degree really does not mean anything. I would just like to try something different. My last ex has a college degree. He also spent 10 out of the last 20 years in jail or prison. See my point?
What does that say about you for picking a man like that ?
 
Old 03-07-2016, 07:16 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Originally Posted by RedZin View Post
Let's be serious here. You don't have a boyfriend. You have a FWB.

He doesn't even come to your place after you work for 10 hours straight and get kids off to other places to stay so you can hang with him.
Yes, this is rather sad, L. You said in another thread you're doing his laundry and scrubbing his bathroom.
 
Old 03-07-2016, 07:25 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Yes, this is rather sad, L. You said in another thread you're doing his laundry and scrubbing his bathroom.
In another she says she goes out 4-5 nights a week.

I can't help but wonder when she parents.
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Old 03-07-2016, 07:25 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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I am open to a roommate.

Yeah I don't have parents paying for anything for me and have not since I got my drivers license at 16. I moved out shortly after and have been on my own since. Partying? Lol. I worked 2-3 jobs while in part time high school so I could support myself. I bought my first house at 20.

I tried college. By the time I got to classes at night, I fell asleep because I was exhausted. At this point, I have been out of school 20 years. I also have zero desire to go back. I really feel it would be a waste of time and money if I have no want to be there.
...except in another of your threads where you are bemoaning your lack of cashflow in your two houses "However the house is on my credit. The house I moved to I bought using my parents credit."

Another example of you being glib. I'm sure you're gonna even things out with your parents, but they ARE helping you out...so you can play semantics all you want but it's clear you play very fast and loose with the facts. And that gives you the wiggle room you need to keep refusing any advice given here.

Isn't it EXHAUSTING? Forever dancing around the truth, keeping up the facade? If you used a quarter of the energy you spend constantly DEFLECTING everything that gets close to touching you and instead used it on making a real change you'd be light years ahead.

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Old 03-07-2016, 07:33 PM
 
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WARNING - OP just wants to shoot the $hit....no need for serious remedies, she'll reject them all.
Yay!! Another LowOnLuck Entertainment Thread!!!!

*Sigh* It's late here and I have an early day tomorrow.

I'll bookmark it for lunchtime tomorrow.

Carry on.
 
Old 03-08-2016, 04:07 AM
 
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In another she says she goes out 4-5 nights a week.

I can't help but wonder when she parents.
I take my kids out with me. And when I mean out, one night we may go with friends to mini golf. Another night we may do family night with face painting and games at a restaurant. We do lots of family activities, play groups, etc. I don't sit at home with my kids, nor do I go out often and leave them home.
 
Old 03-08-2016, 04:22 AM
 
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...except in another of your threads where you are bemoaning your lack of cashflow in your two houses "However the house is on my credit. The house I moved to I bought using my parents credit."

Another example of you being glib. I'm sure you're gonna even things out with your parents, but they ARE helping you out...so you can play semantics all you want but it's clear you play very fast and loose with the facts. And that gives you the wiggle room you need to keep refusing any advice given here.

Isn't it EXHAUSTING? Forever dancing around the truth, keeping up the facade? If you used a quarter of the energy you spend constantly DEFLECTING everything that gets close to touching you and instead used it on making a real change you'd be light years ahead.
They may have put the loan on their names, but they have not given me one dollar to make it work. Everything I have, I have bought with my own money.

Why should I change who I am for someone else? I am happy with myself.
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