Is it me or is this creepy/weird? (date, men, interested)

[4eversearching]

There's a balance though. I hate the endless back and forth also and usually lose interest that way. I think at least a basic introduction though is the polite thing to do.

[kell490]

I have had endless messaging before with girl then when we meet she had no attraction to me was a total waste of time which I don't blame her just was no attraction. Best to just meet up somewhere public coffee shop or bar you know in the first 10 minutes if there is attraction. Physical attraction is very important in relationships if there isn't any then move on.

[Gabriella Geramia]

I don't understand why a lot of women find this weird. How are you supposed to really get to know anyone anyway without meeting them in person? You can chat all you want but you're not going to find much about them and it becomes kind of a waste of time/effort/hope.

[funymann]

Originally Posted by GKelly

I don't understand why a lot of women find this weird. How are you supposed to really get to know anyone anyway without meeting them in person? You can chat all you want but you're not going to find much about them and it becomes kind of a waste of time/effort/hope.

Because she doesn't know anything about the guy. He might be a weirdo that will taint her drink somehow.

You can never be too cautious.

[Raena77]

He's a smooth operator.And way too fast, he just wants sex.

[BellevueNative]

Look at it this way: you have lots to talk about over drinks. I don't think it's weird at all...just like meeting a blind date.

[NewYorker11356]

Originally Posted by funymann

Because she doesn't know anything about the guy. He might be a weirdo that will taint her drink somehow.

You can never be too cautious.

Newsflash, she won't know anything about the guy regardless.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by NewYorker11356

Newsflash, she won't know anything about the guy regardless.

Uh have you dated online before?

You can look up many things just with first and last name.Even with a phone number.

[NewYorker11356]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Uh have you dated online before?

You can look up many things just with first and last name.Even with a phone number.

That's assuming they decide to swap numbers and/or facebook accounts/full names.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by NewYorker11356

That's assuming they decide to swap numbers and/or facebook accounts/full names.

The minute you get a number, caller ID can come up.