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Old 03-06-2016, 07:47 AM
 
Location: Central IL
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Girls wil ask me what I'm looking for and I will tell them "Im not looking for a relationship right away. I would like to go on a date and see how it goes. If there's interest then a second date and soon and so on. If it leads into a relationshi great, I just don't want to put that pressure on our first date like we HAVE to get along well "


Does that sound good or does that sound stupid?
I might be bit miffed, like duh? Do you really think I'm the stalker type who gets immediately attached to someone?

Seems unnecessary - NO ONE but a psycho goes on the first date absolutely expecting that it be a "relationship" immediately. The point is that you are OPEN to it possibly turning into an ongoing relationship in the future - that you are looking to get into a relationship and not just a series of first dates with different people.
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Old 03-06-2016, 08:20 AM
 
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And you are the problem. Be honest and women like myself won't waste time with you. Look for the chicks that just want to get laid.
Sounds like your problem, not mine. I'll continue to do as I please regardless of insults or shaming. Being honest would make it more difficult to get what I want which is short-term sexual gratification. By lying, the pool of women to potentially sleep with is larger. No remorse.
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Old 03-06-2016, 08:25 AM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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Sounds like your problem, not mine. I'll continue to do as I please regardless of insults or shaming. Being honest would make it more difficult to get what I want which is short-term sexual gratification. By lying, the pool of women to potentially sleep with is larger. No remorse.
You sound like a real winner.
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Old 03-06-2016, 08:30 AM
 
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You sound like a real winner.
Passive aggressive attack on character. This is new and exciting.
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Old 03-06-2016, 08:52 AM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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Passive aggressive attack on character. This is new and exciting.
Sorry, but lying to get what you want is not attractive in anyone.
Just think about how you feel, or would feel, if the same were done to you.
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Old 03-06-2016, 08:59 AM
 
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Sorry, but lying to get what you want is not attractive in anyone.
Just think about how you feel, or would feel, if the same were done to you.
He has no empathy.
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Old 03-06-2016, 09:15 AM
 
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He has no empathy.
Why should I act on your (not yours specifically) interest over mine?
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Old 03-06-2016, 09:57 AM
 
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Everyone knows I'm not interested in exclusivity and I've never had a shortage of interest from women interesting in going out on dates and having fun. Not only about sex.

Could be a problem with your location, or with all due respect your game. No one even asks me, they assume I am dating others. They are welcome to do so as well.
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Old 03-06-2016, 10:01 AM
 
Location: Pa
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You sound like a real winner.
Let's be honest it's all talk.
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Old 03-06-2016, 11:36 AM
 
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Girls wil ask me what I'm looking for and I will tell them "Im not looking for a relationship right away. I would like to go on a date and see how it goes. If there's interest then a second date and soon and so on. If it leads into a relationshi great, I just don't want to put that pressure on our first date like we HAVE to get along well "


Does that sound good or does that sound stupid?
Why not just say you're open to a relationship, but you want to see how it goes.
Don't elaborate, and/or don't make excuses.
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