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Old 03-08-2016, 09:10 AM
 
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LDR's are difficult at best without any other underlying issues. In this case, probably best to walk away. having said that 'addicted' is relative. Most guys watch porn to some extent, and it could also be that he is watching it as a substitute for you not being around. Now if you were there and he was choosing porn over you, then I would say that is a big problem.


I watch porn myself sometimes, but I prefer to have sex with my wife is what I'm driving at.
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Old 03-08-2016, 11:29 AM
 
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To the left to the left...everything you own is in a box to the left....
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Old 03-08-2016, 11:46 AM
 
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It's none of your business.
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Old 03-08-2016, 11:48 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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It's none of your business.
why not?


If he doesn't get intimate with her because he is too busy doing the thing alone, it becomes her business.


Especially since he told her about it.
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Old 03-08-2016, 11:54 AM
 
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why not?


If he doesn't get intimate with her because he is too busy doing the thing alone, it becomes her business.


Especially since he told her about it.
Heh Advice from the CD Boys.


OP let him flog himself raw.


Move on, theres a guy who lives nearby who can come and deal with spiders for you too.
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Old 03-08-2016, 12:11 PM
 
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why not?


If he doesn't get intimate with her because he is too busy doing the thing alone, it becomes her business.


Especially since he told her about it.
They are long distance. They don't see each other that often.

There was nothing in her post to indicate he is using that instead of being intimate with her.

It's already clear by her other thread that they probably shouldn't even be together in the first place.
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Old 03-08-2016, 12:50 PM
 
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Theyre probably NOT together - in his mind at least.
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Old 03-08-2016, 12:56 PM
 
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Find a guy without porn issues and that lives near you so that you can have a normal loving relationship. It's not your responsibility to fix whatever is wrong with your boyfriend. Relationships shouldn't be that complicated. Let him have his virtual fantasy world and go live a real life with less drama.
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Old 03-08-2016, 04:36 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Been where you are. He is a Narcissist. The way he treats you is that he doesn't value you or the time you spend together. The only thing I saw in your post was that he wants your total and undivided attention, but he wants to be able to do what he wants, when he wants.

DITCH HIM NOW!
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