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My boyfriend said that he won't marry me if I don't lose weight. He has started seeing other women to show that he's got one foot out the door and he's ready to leave if I don't make an effort.
Dump him now. He's already shown he's not committed to you RIGHT NOW - you think he'd come through on some bogus promise of marriage years down the road?
Lose the weight for yourself and find a new, great guy!
Ultimatums is a sign of interpersonal and communication problems. While loosing weight might be a healthy thing... using a threat to push you into something he wants is a major issue. I guarantee that this won't be the last time he uses ultimatum to get his way
Dump him now. He's already shown he's not committed to you RIGHT NOW - you think he'd come through on some bogus promise of marriage years down the road?
Lose the weight for yourself and find a new, great guy!
Ultimatums is a sign of interpersonal and communication problems. While loosing weight might be a healthy thing... using a threat to push you into something he wants is a major issue. I guarantee that this won't be the last time he uses ultimatum to get his way
Agreed.
Whether OP wants to lose weight (or needs to) is not the relevant point here.
I also think I'd feel differently if he wasn't out seeing other women.
If her weight is a danger to her health, he should be trying to get help her, not upsetting her.
If he just prefers thinner women, why not just date them and leave the OP alone?
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My boyfriend said that he won't marry me if I don't lose weight. He has started seeing other women to show that he's got one foot out the door and he's ready to leave if I don't make an effort.
Your *BF* is dating other women and you want to know what to do?
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