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Dude you just say you wanted perfection.
get it clear to your head you are not going to find it period.
I did not say I wanted a perfect guy. I said I want one the fits me perfectly. In other words I want one that I can handle their flaws. I am certainly not perfect and don't expect perfection from anyone else
Maybe you should learn how many days are in a week. Saw the one guy last night. My ex is coming over tonight to help me with something at the house.
Sorry. I edited my post as my eyes played tricks on me and I saw both of those comments as posted today. Probably because I read them both today. However, I stand by my comment on not being so trusting. I'm slow to trust and the last person I blindly trusted totally blew up in my face.
You just do things weird is what I am saying. You kept this guy in the friend zone for 18 months before you would consider dating him.
DURING that time you had a relationship with the guy on your couch (who you were sharing [unwillingly] with another woman), AND during that time you went on your date-a-thon.
You think that makes you look picky and like you wait to get to know a guy? No. That means you couldn't find someone else, so you went with the poor guy you kept sticking with the high bar tabs.
Your actions ARE easy, whether or not you have sex.
I went in the 60 date-a-thon prior to dating couch guy.. How am I easy? I am hard to get close to.
Part of the problem is she goes into high gear to find another failure as soon as she realizes she is being used and wasting her time. Then she picks the first guy that comes along that fits her picky specifications. Then, of course, he is the perfect guy, perfect fit, loves her kids etc.
And, hard as it is to believe, there he was right under her nose all along cause she has actually known him for years! And he always wanted to date her! You just can't make this stuff up. Repetitive pattern time after time and SHE DOESN'T LEARN.
If the latest victim, errr i mean boyfriend, did not turn and run after hearing of the two kids to two different baby daddy stories, and the crazy stalker ex who wants to kill her, we all know what he wants. But she hasn't figured that out yet.
If she withholds sex as she said she would until she gets married, i give this kid a month max, until he is gone and she is once again trying to figure out what went wrong.
I wonder if she has an excel spreadsheet to keep track of all these guys? Dear...
I did that once. At the time, I had signed up for both OKC and Match to compare being on a free and a paid site to see if one was really better than the other.
In my experience, no. Over the course of 5 years, I've had two dates from OKC, none from Match and eHarmony is how I learned about fake profiles. None from POF or Tinder either, but I was only on those for about a month and a week, respectively. I did talk to someone from Tinder. He was underemployed, had no friends, wasn't really involved in his kids' lives even though they live a mile from him and wanted to make sure I had time in my schedule to spend 3-4 hours a day with him growing our relationship. And then he went on a weird tangent comparing sex to a pilot flying a plane and the plane crashing.
Yep, this is what I attract.
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