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Because all military men are hot, buff and "manly." lol
My first husband certainly wasn't the gung ho, ooh-rah, buff, "manly" type. He was a bank geek who got accepted into the MC's music program and was a musician, instrumentalist, for his first enlistment. He was the characteristic nerd/geek, and there are a lot of them.
Maybe you want an infantryman or combat support, and even then there's a lot of variety.
Oh, and I met my first husband online, AOL, and the same for the other military men I met or dated briefly (AOL back in the day and modern dating sites).
If you like and can afford So Cal, try it out. There are a lot of tag chasers in So Cal, and several Navy and USMC bases.
OP, should focus less on keeping up with the Joneses, and more so on her own issues.
I get the sense that she wants military man specifically for the wrong reasons, despite what she's saying. Contrary to popular belief, it's not always wise to marry young due to the changes the person will go through in their 20s. There are some success stories but it's not for everyone. I understand the OP struggles with CP, but getting married will not solve her problems.
No you aren't. You are still looking to find a man, any man, to marry you and get you pregnant NOW. You really don't seem to care what that man is like, no mention of anything other than some basic caricature of prince charming. You want some fairy tale that has absolutely no basis in reality. But it's your life, you have to live with whatever mess you create. God help any children you rush into having.
And just like that another single parent is created and a child grows up with no father and an emotionally stunted mother.
I like buff men too but I'm expanding my horizons by thinking of doing martial arts, crossfit, tough mudder, etc. If there was a site to date spies I'd probably be into that. Think Archer.
DH is retired AF. They actually train the recruits to be on the look out for / and stay away from people like you.
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