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Boy lady, are you ever overreacting. Lets say that you go shopping and pass by a jewelry store with very expensive jewelry. Does that mean that you're going to go ahead and buy? No probably not. Just because someone watches a video about picking up chicks or a threesome, doesn't mean they want to do it. Maybe its just curiosity about human behavior and motivation or something similar. Your post leads me to believe you might be a huge control freak, wanting to control every thought or action of your husband.
Apparantly not or this would not be an issue or a question posted on a public forum for random strangers to attempt to give a completely uninformed answer about.
Talk to HIM, HE is the ONLY ONE who has the correct answer.
I don't know... what would we all do if no one came here with their problems... ... there is also this: when women I am with come to me with issues like the o.p. is having I rarely react well. Usually I obfuscate or deny, or shut down. YouTube? Really? There is NOTHING on YouTube worthy of confronting a partner over. There are seriously twisted porn sites and cheating portals and such and if someone got wind of their partner visiting such a site they would be remiss to not confront it. But YouTube? I don't think so.
I don't know... what would we all do if no one came here with their problems... ... there is also this: when women I am with come to me with issues like the o.p. is having I rarely react well. Usually I obfuscate or deny, or shut down. YouTube? Really? There is NOTHING on YouTube worthy of confronting a partner over. There are seriously twisted porn sites and cheating portals and such and if someone got wind of their partner visiting such a site they would be remiss to not confront it. But YouTube? I don't think so.
Someone should be able to talk to their partner about anything. The fact that you don't respond well is on you.
I don't know... what would we all do if no one came here with their problems... ... there is also this: when women I am with come to me with issues like the o.p. is having I rarely react well. Usually I obfuscate or deny, or shut down. YouTube? Really? There is NOTHING on YouTube worthy of confronting a partner over. There are seriously twisted porn sites and cheating portals and such and if someone got wind of their partner visiting such a site they would be remiss to not confront it. But YouTube? I don't think so.
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Originally Posted by Dewdroplet76
Someone should be able to talk to their partner about anything. The fact that you don't respond well is on you.
I can understand Leisesturm's point to an extent. There is nothing on YouTube worth confronting a partner over. I'd be like, "Gee, we must have a pretty good relationship if this is what you're getting offended by." It's petty. It's also naive. Men look. A lot. Any woman who doesn't think so is deluding herself. (Not that you do, but the OP and others like her who get their hackles up.) As long as he's not being disrespectful and ogling women while he's out with me, I could not care less. Why? Because I'm looking, myself!
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