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Old 04-03-2016, 09:36 PM
 
Location: Illinois
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Meh. No amount of "trying harder," without getting too graphic, is going to get that animal style desire and my blood pumping like natural beauty, which equates to more pleasurable sex, in general.

Yes, passion, connection, feelings all make sex better, but on a base, primal level, hotter woman, hotter sex.
"...make sex better..." for you. Doesn't mean you're doing a damn thing for her just because you're all hot and heavy.

GREAT sex for both parties (or more, whatever)happens because both people enjoy sex and enjoy the person they are doing it with. That's it.
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Old 04-03-2016, 09:49 PM
 
Location: NW Nevada
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I find this false. I think, guys who think is watch too much porn, Lol
In this, I think you're right. I've found that smashing looks in a woman, can often mean she can feel as if she's doing a guy a massive favor just by going to bed, and the guy is expected to do all the work. Looks can also mean serious conceit.
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Old 04-03-2016, 10:09 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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In this, I think you're right. I've found that smashing looks in a woman, can often mean she can feel as if she's doing a guy a massive favor just by going to bed, and the guy is expected to do all the work. Looks can also mean serious conceit.
Really? Quite sad to think a lady would sleep with a bloke just as a favour.

if a woman finds YOU attractive they will put the effort in and go for it during sex regardless of how attractive THEY are.

Ive found the complete opposite of what you said to be true if honest, and if anything the more beautiful/stunning they are the harder they work during sex as they are more confident about themselves, Plus seeing me enjoying it won't do any harm either

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Old 04-04-2016, 01:13 AM
 
Location: New York
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I find this false. I think, guys who think is watch too much porn, Lol

So you believe better looking women are always better lays?
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Old 04-04-2016, 03:55 AM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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One of my Aunt from my mother side fit in exactly what you describe. But the man he married for 40 years still with him He is German don't know if that is the reason to stick that long or he might does not care any more. She visited me few times with uncle. I am talking my side not uncles side.

1) Go some where- is in sane if we promised some one that we will be there at 17:30 pm she will start sitting on the toilet and doing her make-ups at that time.

2) once I drive 2.30 hours to pick them up from Germany because uncle could not drive due to operation on his knee. I told her that I will be there then and then be ready. I was there nothing were packed. She was on the phone because some one's dog died. you imagine my mind. LOL

3) you cannot say how you feel about her activities, she is never wrong. Then she is moody angry try to blame on some one else,just about her self that is it. She is never wrong.

I cannot speak relationship wise but I am sure poor uncle got no choice than sticking with her. But I could not cope with her like that. I am waiting to pick them up she just invite some one else to eat by her. If I was a man and she was my wife I left long ago seriously. Not only a man wise that sort of people do it for every one.

That was my last time , no more I removed her from entire contacts did not even a call back. I understand what you say. I wish I could read uncles mind.

No one can OP!
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Old 04-04-2016, 04:52 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Anyone who keeps another person waiting on a regular basis is selfish.

It takes a lot of time for some women to do whatever they do to their hair, skin, clothing to get "that look". It's artificial.

Essentially, you're attracted to selfish, artificial looking woman.
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Old 04-04-2016, 05:46 AM
 
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I have recently come to the realization that I just can't do it anymore...

I have dated several women that were high maintenance. The biggest problem here is that I myself can be impatient. Having to wait 3 hours for someone to get ready, to be late all the time, and to be pushed aside for what someone else considers "more important things" is just wrong. They always seem to be very much into themselves and you cannot depend on them for when things go bad. And all this for (if you are lucky) mediocre sex?

Why do guys put up with this? I just can't anymore...

I don't know what annoys me more..that or the men that put up with it.


I haven't. So, since I haven't and you do it, why don't you tell me why YOU do it?
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Old 04-04-2016, 06:36 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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I have dated several women that were high maintenance. The biggest problem here is that I myself can be impatient. Having to wait 3 hours for someone to get ready, to be late all the time, and to be pushed aside for what someone else considers "more important things" is just wrong. They always seem to be very much into themselves and you cannot depend on them for when things go bad.
To me, this doesn't seem like high maintenance but simply a self-centered person who doesn't respect other people's time.

Some men like high maintenance women; particular about the level of lifestyle they maintain AND expect their men to participate in that. They are usually very particular about their image and looks. I have a coworker whose wife falls into this category. She dresses him and kinda directs him in the image he should project; live the fast paced life in NYC, expensive restaurants, insisted that their next car is a BMW (she doesn't drive) etc. My cousin is very high maintenance and her husband is not... somehow it works out for them. He kinda likes it when things are all prim-proper and particularly in order at home.

They can and often are fine people underneath it all... just ... eh... high maintenance. It takes a particular man who values this level of particularity in a woman. I'm not one of them. I'm kinda the opposite; down to earth.. type. In part because of my upbringing.
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Old 04-04-2016, 06:39 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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So you believe better looking women are always better lays?
No, I do not, and I'm sure men with experience can attest.

Can anyone tell by looking at a woman (or man) that she/he is great in the sack? I didn't think so.
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Old 04-04-2016, 06:46 AM
 
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I know a lady who has to put her "face" on any time she goes out of the house. That means at least an hour. Her husband just plans on getting her moving an hour earlier that's all.....
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