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She knows all this, she knows my circumstances . She remembers everything I tell her. I also told her I'm almost done, which is true . Hopefully as she knows all this she'll give me some slack. I am interested in her I do think she is interested on some level. After our last talk which went well. We crossed paths for two seconds and she looks like direct eye contact with me. Like the deep look. Women know when we like them she knows this. So has to know whats up without a doubt. I want to have another talk then ask for her number. I don't need any momentum now. We're familiar enough. It's finding her now, as I have not seen her for a bit.
She knows all this, she knows my circumstances . She remembers everything I tell her. I also told her I'm almost done, which is true . Hopefully as she knows all this she'll give me some slack. I am interested in her I do think she is interested on some level. After our last talk which went well. We crossed paths for two seconds and she looks like direct eye contact with me. Like the deep look. Women know when we like them she knows this. So has to know whats up without a doubt. I want to have another talk then ask for her number. I don't need any momentum now. We're familiar enough. It's finding her now, as I have not seen her for a bit.
REALLY? And exactly how do you know this?
I am with the others who have said that you have built this whole thing up in your head.
It's gotten out of control because you are not good at reading signals and keep bumping this thread to feel like you have something going on with her when you actually don't.
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I walked in there tonight I stopped and talked to the guys at the desk as I usually do. Her and her friend were looking at me from the cardio machines whispering something to each other smiling. They were looking directly at me both of them
She made direct eye contact with me once for a second. Her friend kept looking and smiling. No idea what was said.
I know her friend is there with her boyfriend working out all the time. I was still talking to the desk guys and couple other people and then they left.
No idea what was said... but they weren't giving me negative looks. It was smiles and whispers.
... was the last time you actually saw her, on 5/19.
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So the Plot thickens. She shows up with a friend they go upstairs to private yoga class. Fine
Later on I see her downstairs working out alone. So I go up and talk to her. Now this was totally unexpected she acts somewhat cold to me. She enters my personal space super close to me………… yet her demeanor is ice cold to me.
I don’t get it… totally confused
I didn’t bring it up due to her being cold at me I talked somewhat.
I then approach her again and told her some funny work stories it went ok yet she’s still cold.
This is very different form a month ago.
I have a feeling that she thinks I have blown her off and is acting cold to me, yet she comes up super close right up to me …leans in all that. She still does the looking and glancing at me from a distance. We kept looking at each other yet she’s cold to me. It honestly wasn’t like this before. She was totally warm and happy.
I can’t make a move with her this cold to me. No way. Not a chance. I have a feeling that I need to earn her trust or something back. I need to flirt more or build up some interest again…. and then do it.
I was 100% prepared to do it. But its contradictory …she comes up in my space when I talk to her yet she’s cold.
We keep looking at each other….. yet she’s cold. I see her glancing over all the time and I do as well.
I need to show more interest in her warm things back up then do it. She’s cold as hell. It was not like this before.
I suspect she thinks I am not interested …..so that’s why she is cold. I need to show interest again. I cant ask yet
Once again she was more receptive to me and warm a month ago…..And on Monday.
I’m not making a move on a semi pissed off girl.
... was the last time you even spoke to her, on 5/18. Two and a half weeks ago.
She CLEARLY is not into you. You are the only one who refuses to see it. You are misreading her.
It's gotten out of control because you are not good at reading signals and keep bumping this thread to feel like you have something going on with her when you actually don't.
This ...
... was the last time you actually saw her, on 5/19.
And THIS...
... was the last time you even spoke to her, on 5/18. Two and a half weeks ago.
She CLEARLY is not into you. You are the only one who refuses to see it. You are misreading her.
Do you actually read any of our responses? Or are you being obtuse and continuing to use "allot," which means "to allocate" instead of "a lot" which means "very much" just to **** me off, given the number of times I've pointed out the difference?
Trust me (and everyone else posting in this thread who I know will agree with me) if you were truly interested in her, you would find a way to make the time.
I'm betting she didn't "make an appearance" at the gym today.
I am truly interested I just get nervous and don't see her as much as I'd like. I need to get that out of my head. In order to act.
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