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Old 06-02-2016, 02:00 PM
 
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... on an imaginary level.

No if I felt I was totally out I would have pulled the pin along time ago.
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Old 06-02-2016, 02:04 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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No if I felt I was totally out I would have pulled the pin along time ago.
Pulled the pin? Out of what?

Nothing is happening. You are experiencing manufactured drama.

Here is a trick: Go to one of your posts, click on your name and go down to "Find all posts by Swan Dive." Then click that, go to Page 19 to start at the beginning, and just read all your posts one after another, with no commentary from any other posters.

That way you should be able to see the repetition and read the REALITY of what is happening here.
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Old 06-02-2016, 02:06 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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No that's not true she is on some level
This is dangerous thinking.

You are slowly but surely drifting into "she wants it" territory.

You are going TOO FAR with this fantasy. Putting words into her head. Analyzing her friends' facial expressions. Seeing giant gaping grins and determining these mean sexual interest. Pooh-poohing the fact that people are basically rescuing her from you now. You are literally seeing what's NOT going on and are NOT seeing what IS going on.

When it all comes crashing down, your reaction will invariably be anger/misplaced betrayal and who knows what will happen from there. Geez, man. Get help already for this issue.
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Old 06-02-2016, 02:10 PM
 
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Pulled the pin? Out of what?

Nothing is happening. You are experiencing manufactured drama.

Here is a trick: Go to one of your posts, click on your name and go down to "Find all posts by Swan Dive." Then click that, go to Page 19 to start at the beginning, and just read all your posts one after another, with no commentary from any other posters.

That way you should be able to see the repetition and read the REALITY of what is happening here.
You're not there . That's all there is to it
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Old 06-02-2016, 02:10 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Where is she OP? I thought, there was this special 'bond' between you two?


Listen to this jam, because you'll be singing this soon, Lol.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91ZcQflBbNo
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Old 06-02-2016, 02:12 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You're not there . That's all there is to it
She's not there either.
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Old 06-02-2016, 02:17 PM
 
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This is dangerous thinking.

You are slowly but surely drifting into "she wants it" territory.

You are going TOO FAR with this fantasy. Putting words into her head. Analyzing her friends' facial expressions. Seeing giant gaping grins and determining these mean sexual interest. Pooh-poohing the fact that people are basically rescuing her from you now. You are literally seeing what's NOT going on and are NOT seeing what IS going on.

When it all comes crashing down, your reaction will invariably be anger/misplaced betrayal and who knows what will happen from there. Geez, man. Get help already for this issue.
Stop messing with me. You made the second push encouraging me.
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Old 06-02-2016, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Stop messing with me. You made the second push encouraging me.
Are you joking right now? Yes, when this situation was newer, and you weren't increasingly putting words into another person's head and claiming to "know" what she was thinking, meanwhile racking up literally 1500 posts and post-replies of avoidance yet having an imaginary relationship that you FEEL is increasing though NOTHING is happening...sure, I encouraged you THEN.

NOW, things are getting really, really, really unsettling. Disturbing.

Get help.
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Old 06-02-2016, 02:32 PM
 
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Are you joking right now? Yes, when this situation was newer, and you weren't increasingly putting words into another person's head and claiming to "know" what she was thinking, meanwhile racking up literally 1500 posts and post-replies of avoidance yet having an imaginary relationship that you FEEL is increasing though NOTHING is happening...sure, I encouraged you THEN.

NOW, things are getting really, really, really unsettling. Disturbing.

Get help.
Oh get real!
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Old 06-02-2016, 02:47 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Oh get real!
Yeah jerZ....GET REAL!

Reality check'yo'self. Lmao.
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