Eye contact question (opening, boring, guys, single)

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by rs1n

What could be more effective in terms of "spinning it around" than straight up asking her out? Now, could someone help me unroll my eyeballs? I'm beginning to dislike seeing my eye sockets.

I agree, just bolting up to her and putting it on her is the complete opposite

However could you imagine if she turned around and said " not so fast you're too hasty and direct "....

I would fall over laughing

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by rs1n

What could be more effective in terms of "spinning it around" than straight up asking her out? Now, could someone help me unroll my eyeballs? I'm beginning to dislike seeing my eye sockets.

Well we haven't talked in like two weeks.

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

I agree, just bolting up to her and putting it on her is the complete opposite

However could you imagine if she turned around and said " not so fast you're too hasty and direct "....

I would fall over laughing

That could happen actually she may not know me well enough to go out somewhere or whatever.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by Swan Dive

That could happen actually she may not know me well enough to go out somewhere or whatever.

Well only one way to find out mate

Come on the suspense is killing us, we've all stopped watching our favourite soaps awaiting an outcome

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

Well only one way to find out mate

Come on the suspense is killing us, we've all stopped watching our favourite soaps awaiting an outcome

Well I gotta bump into her first.

[rs1n]

I wrote:

Originally Posted by rs1n

You've already talked to her. There's no need to "start up again." Just ask her out. You only want to "start up again" because you are afraid of rejection

You: "Since it's been a while and she may just turn me down. So I need to 'start up again' -- that way if she doesn't show interest I won't have to ask her out after all."

That's your fear of rejection. Ask her out. You've already been given ideas on how to ask her even if she's surrounded by a ton of people. Stop rationalizing.

If she says yes, congrats to your first date. If she says no, congrats on your first step toward overcoming your fear.

and you responded with:

Originally Posted by Swan Dive

That could happen actually she may not know me well enough to go out somewhere or whatever.

So predictable...

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by Swan Dive

Well I gotta bump into her first.

Ain't there no other women where you are? Don't understand why you are so invested in this one?

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

Ain't there no other women where you are? Don't understand why you are so invested in this one?

Well it is the topic of the thread. This was way longer more than I ever thought it would be.Totally unexpected.

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by NWGirl74

Understandable. Now that you've shown her you aren't interested, there's no need for her to try to get to the gym when she knows you are there.

I'm afraid this could be, its hard too verify. But its not impossible.

[NWGirl74]

Originally Posted by Swan Dive

That could happen actually she may not know me well enough to go out somewhere or whatever.

Once again, the point of dating is to go out and get to know someone better.