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Um, if he's going up and talking to her, I would say that's not exactly silent or unspoken.
Yes it is, I know he's trying to pick her up and she knows this. I don't think he knows I am too. Im aware of him he's unaware of me. Its silent as me an him don't talk or know each other
Last edited by Swan Dive; 04-13-2016 at 05:34 PM..
I am curious about signs of interest from a gym girl. first off we do the eye contact thing I have approached her and introduced myself. After the she would now approach me and say "Hi" quite energetically and waves after our first meeting a ten second chat. This other guy there I notice I think is trying to pick her up.He talks to her on the stepper, but while is happening she is looking at me multiple times dead square in the face, like deeper eye contact. I look back a bit later and we both look again. Not sure exactly what this means, she's talking to him as she uses the stepper yet looks over at me a few machines down. This happened twice in a bout 5 minutes, He didn't detect that she was looking. not sure what to make of this, any ideas? I plan to speak to her again next time.
I'd probably say you are in and she's not really into the other guy...
Just suggest meeting somewhere to get to know each other and see where that goes.
Isn't this like the fifth or sixth time you've asked questions about women supposedly being interested in you at the gym? And then you are always going to do something later when some rapport is built up, but then you never do?
I fell into a similar trap myself. Ah, the good ole days... They never ended.
Bumped into her on the way out as she was going in with friends, she gave me a big smile and I briefly walked over. she told me twice( during the conversation) she wanted to talk later at some point.
My voice broke due to being nervous, she saw that. Whatever
when I see her again I'll try to step it up.
But she said twice she wants to start talking . I never asked
once again i am going to reiterate what i said earlier;
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Originally Posted by rbohm
ok SD, is time to screw on your testicles, and ask this girl out. stop screwing around or she will end up leaving your life, and leaving you wondering what if.
it doesnt matter if this a new girl, or one you have known for years, or what ever. *********r damned testicles on and go talk to this girl. ask her to to juice bar, out for coffee, lunch, or what ever. this is a universal issue, you have to go up and talk to her or she is going to leave your life at some point, and you will always be wondering what if i went and talked to her? what if we ultimately dated? what if, what if, what if?
women are going to be coming and going from your life regularly, and when those that are interested in you come along, you need to jump on those opportunities when they present themselves.
I have been moving around allot since 2010. I have been in different cities The gym is my second home. There are other factors with these situations. One recently was debating on cheating on her bf or to trade up. There's no way Im getting near that. I dont need that drama so I drop it. I dont always follow up and post the end result on here.
Another one is moving away so it wont work. She's super nice but she's going too far away for school.
Dude these are different people in different places. The last girl we talked but she is moving soon for school. That ended that. I understand she needs to do what she wants with her life.
Yeah, but it is still the same issue over and over again. Why do you keep coming back with the same questions? Do you think you are going to get different answers?
Yeah, but it is still the same issue over and over again. Why do you keep coming back with the same questions? Do you think you are going to get different answers?
I like to hear different perspectives. Its interesting to me. Yes I do hear slightly different answers here and there.
once again i am going to reiterate what i said earlier;
it doesnt matter if this a new girl, or one you have known for years, or what ever. *********r damned testicles on and go talk to this girl. ask her to to juice bar, out for coffee, lunch, or what ever. this is a universal issue, you have to go up and talk to her or she is going to leave your life at some point, and you will always be wondering what if i went and talked to her? what if we ultimately dated? what if, what if, what if?
women are going to be coming and going from your life regularly, and when those that are interested in you come along, you need to jump on those opportunities when they present themselves.
I agreed but if she is with her friends. I wont do it. I will do if she is alone. She told me she wants to talk to me, twice in one brief chat.
When she is with friends she still waves at me.
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