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Oh my freakin' God. I read your first update before I went to bed and almost posted that by morning you'd find a way to justify keeping this going and I was right.
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I don't think its over.. I cant tell 100% on the look it was at a far distance remember. its a guess.I could be totally wrong.
Yes Im still going to do this I honestly dont think its dead. I couldn't do anyhthing last week remember? I didnt go to the gym.
You went to the gym Monday. She all but asked YOU out and you walked away. That was your golden opportunity and YOU closed the door. It died Monday.
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.Shes not doing OLD.
Then these photos disappeared.The ones with her and women are still up from that night. I honestly think she removed them the day after to look single incase she thought with them hanging out in the gym training I would think they are going out. I think they 100% platonic I see them in the gym together.
You don't know whether or not she's doing OLD and the bold is quite possibly one of the most conceited things I have ever read. There are a thousand reasons that could explain why she removed the pictures and none of them have anything to do with you. Again, I bet you were nowhere near her mind when she removed them. I suspect they were removed due to something between the two of them.
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There's no other reason to remove them. They were up for weeks and now they are gone the day after she said she has no life.
The #1 reason a person usually deletes all their FB photos of a member of the opposite sex is because they were dating and broke up. "I have no life" in this case could very well mean "My boyfriend and I just broke up." And she may not have deleted them but just removed them from her feed - so on her page, they are still visible, just not visible to the public. And she could have done that because people were being nosy and she got tired of answering questions.
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I have no idea what to say to explain why it took me so long with he when I make a move here shortly. It's like I need an explanation possibly
Once again I was not there last week. I couldn't do anything!
I wont do anything unless she's alone. I will get a time when she will be alone. Then I'll do it.Who knows tomorrow could be the day.
Short of your house literally being on fire, there is NOTHING that could not have waited 20 minutes for you to ask for this girl's number. You don't need an explanation for anything. The bottom line is deep down you are NOT interested in this girl or you would have made a move by now. Let it go. Just let it go. You aren't going to do anything to move this forward; you never were.
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have you not been paying attention?
No, that would be YOU.
And for the love of Pete, it's "a lot." "Allot" means to allocate something.
She's not going out with him. I talk to them both. I talk to him every so often.She broke up with some guy a few months back I overhear their conversations. He is with another girl there from time to time.They are not a couple
I will try to make a move when I see her next alone who knows maybe it will be tonight. I don't see how last Monday it was all but asked me out. I saw it as just her giving some hints and conversation and in the future I would. Like setting the ball in motion.Thats how I saw it. Yes I am interested on her. Yes I will move forward.
Last edited by Swan Dive; 05-11-2016 at 08:42 AM..
Would you like to grab a drink or get coffee sometime?
It's been known to work.
Exactly. It doesn't need a lot of time setup. Heck, if they pass each other quickly he could hand her his number on a post-it and do the "here's my number, so call me maybe?" thing. Boom.
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