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Old 04-09-2016, 09:31 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Just wanted to get your opinions. I met my current girlfriend online, and it is going great. I live about 1hr 30 mins away, so we don't get to see each other daily. Anyway, she sent me a picture of her and her girlfriends out, and I realized that I had previously messaged with one of the girls in the picture before I started talking to/dating my girlfriend. The other girl and I never exchanged numbers, never talked on the phone, never met up; we just messaged back and forth a few times.

So I'm just wondering, do I mention anything to my girlfriend? I have never seen my girlfriend's friend out in public before with my girlfriend, so I don't even know if she would recognize me. Anyway, I just wanted to know from your perspective, if it is something worth bringing up. If I had dated her or anything like that, I would definitely mention it, but I have never actually met this girl in real life before. Thanks!
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Old 04-09-2016, 09:37 AM
 
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Years ago I ran into a friend of mine and her new boyfriend at a concert. He was a guy I had met on Match and hung out with a couple of times. Of course, I told her this -- no reason not to. They went on to get married.

I think your situation could go either way. A lot of people would probably see the photo and not even realize it was someone they had messaged with. But, just in case...would you rather she hear it from you, or her friend?
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Old 04-09-2016, 09:52 AM
 
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When I was in my mid 20's I loved older women...40-45 year olds were the holy grail for me..didn't get serious with them, just a lot of casual fun


met this one exceptionally attractive 47 year old at the bar, we dated/hooked up for a while and it fizzled out, we both knew it wasn't going anywhere


fast forward about a year, I had met someone a few years younger than I and we dated for about 5 months, I went to her parents house for easter...met her mom...and guess what ladies and gentlemen...not only was the 47 year old married (she told me divorced), she was also my current girlfriends mom


mom was MUCH better in bed than daughter...anyhoo mom actually told daughter, who ended it understandably


I always wondered if daughter told dad mom cheated on him
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Old 04-09-2016, 09:58 AM
 
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Another one
buddy is a lawyer, his coworker (lawyer/about to become partner) was engaged to a legal assistant at the same firm...the coworker was already getting **** for dating a legal assistant "she is beneath you" was the common thing they told him...she was trying so hard to be elegant and classy and worthy of a partner husband I guess...she was hot


anyhoo I am at a after work party with the buddy at a bar, and run into my cousin...who recognized the coworkers fiancé from high-school...apparently she was the blow job queen of the graduating class...and there weren't too many faces in her yearbook she didn't have a check mark next to LOL


cousin told me in front of my lawyer buddy...who apparently told the coworker...who ended the engagement and dumped her, shortly after she was fired...BRUTAL


I never told my cousin what his little fact sharing did to these people...apparently they were just about to marry, and a lot of money was spent...I guess the future partner just could not marry a high school blow job queen


edit:
cant believe I forgot this
but apparently coworker had told my buddy that this high school blowjob queen, the entire time they had been together, had claimed she HATED giving oral sex "you pee out of that" was one of her excuses, and that she very rarely treated him with a beejer...that might have also been a contributing factor to him dumping her LOL
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Old 04-09-2016, 10:00 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Just wanted to get your opinions. I met my current girlfriend online, and it is going great. I live about 1hr 30 mins away, so we don't get to see each other daily. Anyway, she sent me a picture of her and her girlfriends out, and I realized that I had previously messaged with one of the girls in the picture before I started talking to/dating my girlfriend. The other girl and I never exchanged numbers, never talked on the phone, never met up; we just messaged back and forth a few times.

So I'm just wondering, do I mention anything to my girlfriend? I have never seen my girlfriend's friend out in public before with my girlfriend, so I don't even know if she would recognize me. Anyway, I just wanted to know from your perspective, if it is something worth bringing up. If I had dated her or anything like that, I would definitely mention it, but I have never actually met this girl in real life before. Thanks!
People can sometimes look a bit different in person than they do in a photo so just say nothing and if it ever does pop up just say you didn't recognise her
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