What are the weirdest things that have put you off someone/or put someone off you? (guy, love)

[HappyRain]

Originally Posted by jade408

What are gay clothes?

Maybe skinny jeans for example. Many people have expressed they feel those look guy, and effeminate on men.

[hawaiiancoconut]

Originally Posted by jade408

What are gay clothes?

[leadingedge04]

I tried to expand my dating preferences a few years ago, and went on a date with a smoker. She *needed* to have a cigarette on the date. We met at this outside café and had lunch. She lit up a cigarette, and began smoking it (no smoking allowed in that area). Furthermore, she asked me to hold her cigarette while she put more coins in her car meter. It really turned me off along with her black teeth.

[stepka]

One that bothered me was that his all time favorite band was Kansas.

The weirdest reason that anyone had for being put off me happened just last fall--I had met this man and dated him a few weeks but I really thought he could maybe be "the one." We took a really long hike on a Saturday and then went back to his place and cooked dinner and then laid down on the couch to take a short nap. 20 min later we got up. . . and it was over. He didn't tell me till the next day but when I looked back on it, I knew that it was over right after the nap. He never would tell me why.

[leadingedge04]

Originally Posted by stepka

One that bothered me was that his all time favorite band was Kansas.

The weirdest reason that anyone had for being put off me happened just last fall--I had met this man and dated him a few weeks but I really thought he could maybe be "the one." We took a really long hike on a Saturday and then went back to his place and cooked dinner and then laid down on the couch to take a short nap. 20 min later we got up. . . and it was over. He didn't tell me till the next day but when I looked back on it, I knew that it was over right after the nap. He never would tell me why.

How did you know it was over? Was it expected to be turned into something more than a nap?

[ChiGal7]

Originally Posted by timberline742

Parrotheads.

As in, followers of Jimmy Buffett?

I mean, if they're obsessive enough about him to refer to themselves as a Parrothead then yea I guess I see your point.

[Bakeneko]

I broke up with a boyfriend of a few months because he got mad that I gave my gloves, scarf and hat to a homeless woman.


We had gone downtown (Chicago) for a fancy Christmas party for his work. It was really, really cold - this woman wasn't panhandling or acting crazy - she was just huddled in a doorway trying to keep warm. We walked past her and went about half a block when I had to go back and give her my gloves. I didn't make a big show of it - just took them off and gave them to her.


Boyfriend went off about how he didn't want to hear me complain about how I was cold now and than he wasn't' giving me his gloves/hat and that that woman should get a job, stop doing drugs, etc... I realized he just wasn't a good person. Broke up on the spot and took the train home.

[Amelie90]

Originally Posted by leadingedge04

I tried to expand my dating preferences a few years ago, and went on a date with a smoker. She *needed* to have a cigarette on the date. We met at this outside café and had lunch. She lit up a cigarette, and began smoking it (no smoking allowed in that area). Furthermore, she asked me to hold her cigarette while she put more coins in her car meter. It really turned me off along with her black teeth.

Oh come on. Those black teeth must've been hot!

[Ginge McFantaPants]

"She had man hands."

[Stagemomma]

Really bad teeth. I just can't abide a man who can't find his way to a dentist when his smile only shows 4 teeth!

Obsessive interest in a hobby or sport.