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Old 04-10-2016, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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huh? im sorry but that made no sense at all

her mom had never seen a pic of me. why are you implying IS


Did you leave a word out of that sentence? And did you forget this part?

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We went to a basketball game then dinner. She took a pic of us and sent it to her mom and Her mom said "omg he is kind of cute!".
She most likely discussed you with her mom after the first date, but not in the most glowing terms, and her mom was just saying (upon seeing a photo of you) that you were kind of cute.
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Old 04-10-2016, 04:22 PM
 
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Did you leave a word out of that sentence? And did you forget this part?



She most likely discussed you with her mom after the first date, but not in the most glowing terms, and her mom was just saying (upon seeing a photo of you) that you were kind of cute.

did you not see the part where she said she is attracted to me?
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Old 04-10-2016, 04:27 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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did you not see the part where she said she is attracted to me?
Obviously she is, since she had sex with you.

But she's not attracted ENOUGH to throw over all her plans and keep you in her life.

She's basically telling you that you will do for now, but don't expect anything lasting from her.

Believe me, if she were REALLY into you, it wouldn't matter how busy she is.
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Old 04-10-2016, 04:55 PM
 
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If she was that into you, she would make plans no matter how busy she is.

That is not happening regarding you.

So it is time to leave the ball in her court.
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Old 04-10-2016, 05:00 PM
 
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she never said there's no future?

she said she doesnt want anything till AFTER she graduates
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Old 04-10-2016, 05:03 PM
 
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she never said there's no future?

she said she doesn't want anything till AFTER she graduates
Well...

Are you willing to wait?

However, both of you need to be on the same page, which means you need to communicate with her, and she needs to give you straight answers. Both of you need to be upfront regarding everything.
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Old 04-10-2016, 05:24 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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she never said there's no future?

she said she doesnt want anything till AFTER she graduates
I like your optimism, but the part where she said, "...THEN I'm taking time for myself" is very important.

What she is doing is giving herself PLENTY of ways to get out of the situation. She's doing everything she can to opt out.
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Old 04-10-2016, 05:28 PM
 
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I like your optimism, but the part where she said, "...THEN I'm taking time for myself" is very important.

What she is doing is giving herself PLENTY of ways to get out of the situation. She's doing everything she can to opt out.

but she has said this before multiole times
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Old 04-10-2016, 05:33 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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She isn't taking the relationship with you so serious. It's more of an enjoyable experience. If it happens GREAT, if it doesn't, WELL, it was nice knowing you! You should have the same attitude towards her unless you don't want to have a casual sex relationship with her and see it as a waste of time. She's basically telling you not to get your hopes up. That she may or may not want to be in a relationship with you later but at this point she doesn't want to. I PERSONALLY would feel a bit used and disrespected but that's me.
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Old 04-10-2016, 05:44 PM
 
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I mean I'm not you or anything, but if I were you, I'd head on over to TGIFs for half-price apps. I mean it's tough to not pass up on some of those loaded tater skins.
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