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At 42, I can't really see myself with someone in his 20's, but stranger things have happened.
I was contacted by a 28 year old last time I was on OKC. When I declined to meet him, he called me "prejudice." He was one of those that communication on his part consisted only of one sentences at a time. At least I got sentences. He contacted a friend of mine as well and all she got was one word answers.
Prejudice!!!...... That's tad strong from him LOL just because you didn't want to meet him....
I'm certainly not against older/younger relationships as I've got a " whatever floats your boat " sort of attitude but with immaturity like that he certainly didn't do the young dudes any justice with that gem when it comes to attracting the mature older woman LMAO!.
If it was a family member of yours, would you mind? I know a woman like this. She's in her late forties and she is currently dating this younger guy. She LOVES him. She feels energized by him. It doesn't hurt either that he is dapper.
I was always interested in and attracted to women older than me and not just for sex this goes clear back to when I was 20 years old. Most recently this was someone over 50 and over 10 years older than me because I adored her personality and found her attractive as well. However I am officially done with them, and only go for younger now. This last one, was the last straw. If you're already dating one fine but it's the pre-dating mating dance in which I have found they are terrible.
They play more games than younger women, have more issues than younger women, more baggage than younger women, too set in their ways compared to younger women, more insecurities than younger women which causes problems during the wooing process, the list is endless. They are much worse for pursuing than a younger woman and I don't blame any guy for going younger after what I have experienced.
That is only your experience, and I'm sorry that happened to you (sounds like you might have loved her). But that was one relationship, one experience. On the whole, older women are much freer to be themselves and don't need approval from you or others to do what she pleases.
I do wish you happiness with your younger girls now though too. Relationships are all crapshoots anyway...win some, lose some...
I use to like guys in their twenties 20-22 etc now I can't stand them, I only like older guys in their mid 40s.I think their older age makes them seem a lot more masculine and dominant.
Men really have it in their favour as they age.
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I use to like guys in their twenties 20-22 etc now I can't stand them, I only like older guys in their mid 40s.I think their older age makes them seem a lot more masculine and dominant.
Men really have it in their favour as they age.
I dunno, lots of women certainly improve with age as well. And lots of dudes go in the dumper.
Family member, friend, stranger, I really don't care.
Daughter? ugh....I wouldn't be too thrilled, but I'll respect her choices/decision making as an adult.
Son? Attaboy! Lol
You made me laugh out loud...as you often do.
Can't help but wonder if OP is concerned about an inheritance?
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LMAO!.
