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Old 04-13-2016, 06:48 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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^^^ That's pretty controlling behavior.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:50 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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^^^ That's pretty controlling behavior.
Some will say that if you love your partner, you'll cut off contact with your exes if they ask you to (even if you really are just good FRIENDS with the ex(es) at this point).

But I agree with you in that it's controlling behavior to me. What next? He'll demand you cut off all your friendships?
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:52 PM
 
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Me thinks he was pissed about something else, and ended up focusing on this extremely trivial (if at that) comment from an ex, which was completely benign.

Has this ex tried to do something with you in the past while you're with your husband?
No. I dont even talk to him.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:55 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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That's really immature and unacceptable behavior.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:58 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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That's really immature and unacceptable behavior.
Right, and he is trying to get his way by throwing tantrums, leaving the house, playing pissed off, maybe in the future he will start the silent game...
You have to nip it in the bud, or you will get more of it.

BTW: your ex didn't message you. He merely commented on the baby picture.

Message = a verbal, written, or recorded communication sent to or left for a recipient who cannot be contacted directly.
Comment = a verbal or written remark expressing an opinion or reaction.
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Old 04-13-2016, 07:03 PM
 
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Remove them, problem solved. They have zero need to see what you're up to. Nearly 70% of divorces contain the word Facebook, Hmmm wonder why...
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Old 04-13-2016, 07:05 PM
 
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I feel like I didnt so anything wrong and hes pissed at me for something I have no control of. I dont even know what to do or how to fix it because I feel like I didnt do anything to disrespect him.
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Old 04-13-2016, 07:08 PM
 
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Hes mad because my exs still has a way of reaching out to me. But Ive never replied to any and this ex and I have been broken up for a long time. Another ex texted me before and we fought abouut that too. I eneded up deleting all my exs number on my phine. Like I said I dont reply when they contact me.
For him the "I keep them here but don't talk to them" probably seems like a huge excuse and not the total truth.
People don't tend to keep things around they have no use for.
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Old 04-13-2016, 07:08 PM
 
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Remove them, problem solved. They have zero need to see what you're up to. Nearly 70% of divorces contain the word Facebook, Hmmm wonder why...
I dint have a problem deleting them but I feel thats too immature to delete people becauae the relationship didnt work out.
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Old 04-13-2016, 07:12 PM
 
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For him the "I keep them here but don't talk to them" probably seems like a huge excuse and not the total truth.
People don't tend to keep things around they have no use for.
Even before I got married, I have no intention of getting back with any of them.
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