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I am not sure what is that all about - if she has a secret lover for the last 8 months, then why the heck is she getting married to another guy? Is he a "better catch" providing better life and security? Obviously she will cheat on him, if not with your brother then with other men.
Marriage doomed from the start...
Wow...just... wow. In between your brother and your best friend as hammers with a female anvil . Quite unenviable man. But I'm with others here, she's the one needs to fess up to your brother, and the "friend" has a part to play as well. Facing hour brother, man to man, a taking what he has coming. A stiff uppercut wouldn't be out of line, and the girl can take him to the ER with a broken jaw ,go home with him and feed him through a straw.
You are going to stand at the altar and be able to watch your unsuspecting friend marry his woman guilt-free? I wouldn't be able to stand by and watch this happen. I couldn't live with the guilt.
What about in 5 years when she gets pregnant and is not his?
You are going to have to be there emotionally to help your friend pick up his pieces, now or later.
When he finds out its your brother he is going to want to know when/how long you knew and your loyalty in this situation will could make or break your friendship.
Homegirl has 48 hrs. Check back in with us with an update.
I hope she doesn't call your bluff and actually tells him.
This is devastating.
I would absolutely tell him if she doesnt, especially before the wedding. Its not like they were even trying to keep it private, they were doing it in the house that you live in.
Tell him, and let him decide what he wants to do. Up to him then.
You are going to stand at the altar and be able to watch your unsuspecting friend marry his woman guilt-free? I wouldn't be able to stand by and watch this happen. I couldn't live with the guilt.
What about in 5 years when she gets pregnant and is not his?
You are going to have to be there emotionally to help your friend pick up his pieces, now or later.
When he finds out its your brother he is going to want to know when/how long you knew and your loyalty in this situation will could make or break your friendship.
Homegirl has 48 hrs. Check back in with us with an update.
I hope she doesn't call your bluff and actually tells him.
This is devastating.
5 years? Whos to say she not pregnant right now? What a mess.
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