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Hi I am 29 years old. I have been in an 8 year relationship with my boyfriend. I had a 6 mo old baby when i met him. The baby I had when I met him I had left the babys father because it was an abusive relationship. The boyfriend I am with still has raised that baby since he met me. We also have a 6yr old son together. Both children he treats the same and considers both his. As he is only father my daughter has ever known. In the beg. of of our relationship we both had some drug addictions. My boyfriend ended up going to jail a few times. When that happened and he went to jail I ended up cheating. When he got out of jail he found out about the cheating. He ended up hitting me a few times. But we stayed together. Fast forward 8 years to now I have been completely faithful for years now But he is constantly accussing me. He calls me names like ***** or prostitute a lot when we get into fights. I already don't go barely anywhere by myself. Everytime I do or have even if it is just to the store he accusses me of doing things with other men. He even accusses me of having sex w/ my neighbors. I don't even know most of my neighbors and I don't even talk to anyone. We have our good days too. But this has to stop. When he gets irritated or mad about something that doesn't even have anything to do with me he will start all this. He doesn't want to do oral to me or w/e but always wants me to to him. But if I do start doing it for him and he doesn't finish that way he says it doesn't count. When I do do it to him if he doesn't touch me during. I get upset after and will tell him I just wish he would want to do that to me more and he says that I am complaining about doing it to him. I just want to get along, be trusted, and know he wants me.
What ever the life you are now not good for kids. Move out if you can, and learn from your mistake don't jump to bed with another man while the man who took your child as his own child in the jail. Nothing you can do about it you already done that. So see what you can do from now on. Not every man would take some one kid as his own.
You describe your life as if everything just "happened" to you. No one "ends up" cheating. They cheat. Boyfriends go to jail because they break the law. It takes a very stupid person to repeatedly do that.
If you want your life to improve, take charge. Do one thing first: move out. Stop using drugs. Find a sober friend or family member to stay with. Lock your doors. Find a job. Take care of yourself for a change.
What I was saying is all that happened in the beg of our relationship that was 8 years ago we aren't on drugs now i don't cheat and he doesn't go to jail or hit me now we haven't been like that in years. But now he still calls me names, and I just want him to stop talking about past. I am an awesome gf now and mother. I shouldn't have to everyday hear about a mistake I made 8 years ago. We quit doing drugs years ago that is what I am saying. All that stopped but he still says crap to me that I don't deserve now.
I have been on mirena you can't have kids for 5 years. We do get along a lot of the time. But when we fight it always turns into him talking about the past mistake I made. Everything he did was because of me so he thinks I am only one at fault. I am a normal mom/ gf now and have been for years. I do everything normal moms and gfs do. So I don't think I should have to have my one past mistake thrown in my face when we're fighting about something completely diff. But then he will say when fight is over that he knows I don't cheat he just says it b/c he knows it bothers me. I do love him. He is a good dad. I just want to feel like Im loved and something good too. He says he loves me wants to get married, but one minute I am a ***** next minute I 'm the love of his life.
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