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Old 04-24-2016, 08:32 AM
 
Location: NW Nevada
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Absolutely... there is nothing attractive or captivating or intriguing or special about a woman (or man) who has slept with many others. It complicates marriages and relationships. If you want to wife someone's leftovers then that's your decision.
"Leftovers". Hmm...ya know, I had a woman describe me that way once, since I'm divorced. Thing is, so was she, twice. Think my hackles came up? Yep! Had I made such a crack, I can picture ropes getting 13 loops and a spooky horse.

That's a nasty quip. That is how I see it...

 
Old 04-24-2016, 08:32 AM
 
Location: Baltimore
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The "value system" is for each person to define for themselves individually and judge ONLY themselves against. It is best for a person to only date others who come close on how they define their own value system.
I have no problem with that. But let's all stop pretending that being loose is acceptable in our society. We are simply continuing the stigma of woman.
 
Old 04-24-2016, 08:32 AM
 
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Actually, I think most of problems with America can be attributed to men who are wound up far too tight.
 
Old 04-24-2016, 08:39 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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When in actuality, we are supposed to humble ourselves to our future spouses. There is nothing more special that a future spouse who thought of you before knowing you. But if other people have no problem with it, its fine.. its not my business. But lets not pretend that is somehow okay to be a h0e then wonder why no one takes you seriously.
So then are people who aren't interested in marriage or a "future spouse" supposed to remain celibate? Or is that another problem with modern times?
 
Old 04-24-2016, 08:40 AM
 
Location: Baltimore
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I'd far rather "wife someone's leftovers" than someone who would refer to a woman as "someone's leftovers."
It's not a referral but it is what it is. There's nothing healthy with having multiple casual partners.
 
Old 04-24-2016, 08:41 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Actually, I think most of problems with America can be attributed to men who are wound up far too tight.
What a thread!!!..... Women are too loose and men are wound up far too tight!......

And this is what is going to be Americas downfall?.....

Great read to all!! lmao!
 
Old 04-24-2016, 08:43 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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What a thread!!!..... Women are too loose and men are wound up far too tight!......

And this is what is going to be Americas downfall?.....

Great read to all!! lmao!
Good thing you're safe from the downfall of society in the UK, right?
 
Old 04-24-2016, 08:44 AM
 
Location: Baltimore
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So then are people who aren't interested in marriage or a "future spouse" supposed to remain celibate? Or is that another problem with modern times?
I do not have an answer for that. I also never met anyone who does not want to get married or a permanent life partner. There are repercussions and consequences when one becomes promiscuous and the OP provides her testimony on it.
 
Old 04-24-2016, 08:45 AM
 
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What a thread!!!..... Women are too loose and men are wound up far too tight!......

And this is what is going to be Americas downfall?.....

Great read to all!! lmao!
I'm optimistic that the loose women can balance out the tightly wound men. Might not be a one-to-one ratio...
 
Old 04-24-2016, 08:49 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Good thing you're safe in the UK, right?
Yes but I was meant to go a live in Corpus Christi TX if you remember for that job......... Have I dodged the bullet?, Or have them loose women avoided meeting me dodged the bullet?, Or better still have I missed out on winding up them poor men even more and have they dodged the bullet?!!!!!!!..........


I'd love it there I'm certain!!
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