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First I would never go out with a man who would tell me how to dress
Second I would never go out with a Muslim..My friend did and they had a child and he took the child with him to his country, she has never seen the child again.
I would go out with an Arab but NOT muslim
and let me tell you if he was starring he was starring because he liked what he was looking at, that lame excuse that he wanted to know what she was doing can be told to someone NAIVE but if I was told that I would give him WALKING PAPERS
Is your friend Sally Field?
But seriously, a fundamentalist muslim would be a no-go for me... They'd have to be the most casual muslim in all recorded history for me to have any interest. And before you bash me, realize I'm also not going to be dating any hardcore Christians anytime soon. First, because I'm married to a beautiful heathen and secondly, I'm spiritual, not religious.
Well, what do you expect? This is why Muslims have those restrictions - to prevent them from staring.
The real question is, if you're an ordinary American girl, why would you put up with a boyfriend who dictates what you wear?
Sure...if women must be covered men don't need to control themselves...and apparently he has no self-control.
I don't know if what your sister did was intentional but she did you a huge favor. If he can't stop himself from slobbering all over your sister, what does he do with women he doesn't even know?
This behavior won't change...because he doesn't want to change...it is his culture. Don't think that his concern over your clothing is concern for you or that his jealousy shows how much he cares for you. He probably sees you as an exotic pet...if you're not Muslim it is only a matter of time before he drops you or you convert. I wouldn't advise it.
In fact I think the OP did say people where she lives do tend to dress the way her sister dresses.
So I see what CAOU was saying here. I think he may have a point...these two may just be TOO different cultures-wise.
I know I couldn't do it, terrible though that sounds. I couldn't be with a man who, culturally, felt that restrictive about women and was that serious about rules and the like. Just no way. I'm sure some women could. Not I and not the OP either, I don't think.
First, because I'm married to a beautiful heathen and secondly, I'm spiritual, not religious.
I am spiritual BECAUSE I believe in Jesus and I am not religious. Enlighten me as to how one is a heathen and spiritual? Oh and I agree that the OP should run from this guy and fast!
Hey guys. So I have a boyfriend that I've been with for about 5 years now and yesterday I introduced him to my sister for the first time. (I made a post previously about how my boyfriend continually makes me change my clothes when we go in public so I'm not showing much skin because he's Muslim -- no tank top no short skirts or short dresses nothing showing clevage- so please keep this in mind when replying to my post)
Start to wear what you want, don't be his property and marionette doll. Why you want someone to controll your life? Of course rules are only for you, you are a woman, meanwhile guys wrote different freedoms to themselves to enjoy of life.
I am spiritual BECAUSE I believe in Jesus and I am not religious. Enlighten me as to how one is a heathen and spiritual? Oh and I agree that the OP should run from this guy and fast!
He said he is spiritual and the wife is a heathen.
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AFAIK.
