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you definitely should express your disappointment with how things have unfolded. Many posts to the relationships forum have a commonality that they share and it revolves around honest and open communication between those involved.
Good advice, I will definitely talk to him about the situation.
Is he an ex-military guy? If so that explains it. Lol
I thought the same.
My ex (military) was kinda like that.
Maybe he is just very old fashioned? Not everybody likes the constant texting or signs of affection too early on. Maybe he is just very nervous and shy?
Why couldn't he call? Or even come over for a cup of tea? Or offer some help like to buy some food (as I stay alone with a chld and he has a fever, so I can't go out).
Wait, what? You want some man you barely know to offer to buy you food and bring it to your house where you live with your 2 year old? What?
That's the kind of woman you are? No wonder he seems so cautious with you.
To be fair, this person is a virtual stranger to you. You've spent several hours together in a public and very restrained setting. WHY would he express the emotional intimacy of someone who is involved with your family when he barely knows you?
I see your point. After 2 dates I shouldn't expect too much.
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Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life
He shouldn't be meeting your son for several months, AFTER you have become exclusive, and you certainly don't need to fly somewhere with him when you apparently don't even speak between dates.
Actually we've become exclusive already. He asked me on our 2nd date not to date other guys and promised not to date other women. But there's still a certain distance between us. So yes, it's too early for meeting my son.
The thing that seems odd, is the way he would wait til last minute to confirm your date or place. Trusting that you will definitely be meeting on that day is one thing, but expect you to sit around and wait to be informed of location is quite another. Like he is ready to fly away this weekend and therefore you will. Some signs that says something about him.
Otherwise, I don't think it's weird he haven't try to hold your hands or kiss you after couple of dates. I agreed at this point he has no connections to your family yet to do what you were expecting.
Talia, why did you agree to be exclusive with him?
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