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Old 04-29-2016, 09:46 AM
 
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How much money have you given her?
I think this is a very important question. you said that you gave her a gift card. How much was that for? What other financial contributions have you made to her and/or her kids?
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Old 04-29-2016, 10:35 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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How much money have you given her?
Including gift cards and any donations of time fixing things.
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Old 04-29-2016, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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OP comes across as very clingy and it's most likely turning her off. You really don't need to be a psychic to figure out that she's not that into you. Stop texting and let her take the lead for a while.
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Old 04-29-2016, 10:54 AM
 
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So you two have only been dating since last month, and there was already a recent 2-week period you didn't see one another because she requested a 2-week recovery period after dental surgery. How many times would you say you have seen her? 10? Less than 10? It sounds like you hardly know her, so how can you be falling in love with her?
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Old 04-29-2016, 11:21 AM
 
Location: somewhere in the Midwest
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How much money have you given her?


When I gave her flowers last week, I also gave her a $25 gift card from Whole Foods, because she likes to go there for groceries sometimes. Those are the only gifts that I have given her. She gave me cologne for my birthday, and she cooks for me sometimes. She is so sweet to me, but I don't want to get my heart broken or blindsided in a relationship.
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Old 04-29-2016, 11:26 AM
 
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When I gave her flowers last week, I also gave her a $25 gift card from Whole Foods, because she likes to go there for groceries sometimes. Those are the only gifts that I have given her. She gave me cologne for my birthday, and she cooks for me sometimes. She is so sweet to me, but I don't want to get my heart broken or blindsided in a relationship.
It's Friday. The weekend is upon you. Do not call. Do not text. Do not send her any communication.

Heck, in your shoes, I would never contact her again. You haven't invested all that much time in her. Just move on.
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Old 04-29-2016, 11:28 AM
 
Location: somewhere in the Midwest
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So you two have only been dating since last month, and there was already a recent 2-week period you didn't see one another because she requested a 2-week recovery period after dental surgery. How many times would you say you have seen her? 10? Less than 10? It sounds like you hardly know her, so how can you be falling in love with her?



Actually, I saw her about four days after her dental surgery, because one of her sons had a soccer game. She allowed me to come to his game, and she invited me to her place after the game. But after that weekend, I didn't get to see her much, because she works most evenings during the week.
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Old 04-29-2016, 11:30 AM
 
Location: Fairfax, VA
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...because she works most evenings during the week.

Doing what?
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Old 04-29-2016, 11:31 AM
 
Location: PA
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She has another guy who she hasn't told about you. She doesn't want your texts to "ruin the mood". JMHO
Yup. Going away with another guy. Doesn't want to be interrupted.
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Old 04-29-2016, 11:31 AM
 
Location: somewhere in the Midwest
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It's Friday. The weekend is upon you. Do not call. Do not text. Do not send her any communication.

Heck, in your shoes, I would never contact her again. You haven't invested all that much time in her. Just move on.


I haven't texted her after Wednesday night, because she didn't want me to contact her, because she wants to be alone and she wants to see her friends during the weekend. She said that she will call or text me on Monday.
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