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Why people here judge me for my previous threads? Is this what this forum is for? Helping people? What's wrong if I use to open many threads? Am I guilty for facing a lot of problems with my girlfriend?
Your previous threads paint a picture of your situation more clearly than an isolated thread. You can't hide from what you share on the internet.
Why people here judge me for my previous threads? Is this what this forum is for? Helping people? What's wrong if I use to open many threads? Am I guilty for facing a lot of problems with my girlfriend?
Talk to her not to the strangers like us in a forum. If she really want to have kids set her free. Let her to have kids and have her desirable life she wants. If she really wants kids and you keep her by force?. was it clear to her at all that "you do not want kids? Did she agree on that?" From your post what I see you both play around with out getting to facts with each other.
I think you're 100% right regarding the OP or any man (or woman) taking responsibility for preventing pregnancy and that can't be emphasized enough. I would only add that if everything the OP says is accurate, he ought to break up now. If she's really trying to act against his desire to not be a parent, I don't think he should respond by upping his defensive game. I think it's time to play elsewhere altogether where the person he's in a relationship isn't his opponent, but his teammate.
Then he should set the woman free to have her life what she likes to have. Don't you think? It is not only acting against MEN desires only! then why he cannot castrate (vasectomy) or what ever it called.
Talk to her not to the strangers like us in a forum. If she really want to have kids set her free. Let her to have kids and have her desirable life she wants. If she really wants kids and you keep her by force?. was it clear to her at all that "you do not want kids? Did she agree on that?" From your post what I see you both play around with out getting to facts with each other.
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Originally Posted by Zeurich
Then he should set the woman free to have her life what she likes to have. Don't you think? It is not only acting against MEN desires only! then why he cannot castrate (vasectomy) or what ever it called.
I already told her I dont want kids NOW, I won't say i don't want kids never in my life but now, I don't!
I think you're 100% right regarding the OP or any man (or woman) taking responsibility for preventing pregnancy and that can't be emphasized enough. I would only add that if everything the OP says is accurate, he ought to break up now. If she's really trying to act against his desire to not be a parent, I don't think he should respond by upping his defensive game. I think it's time to play elsewhere altogether where the person he's in a relationship isn't his opponent, but his teammate.
THIS! Having children is a huge thing. Nobody should be tricked into becoming a parent. I couldn't even contemplate continuing to be in a relationship where there is such a fundamental lack of trust.
Your thread about her having someone she slept with years ago on Facebook as a friend..... Remember?
you treated her like crap mate hence people's view on YOU
Why do you think I treated her like crap?
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