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Old 02-14-2008, 10:48 AM
 
Location: Please delete my account!
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Okay y'all, I finished and posted my list of dealbreakers to that thread.

On a much more positive note, since this is Valentine's Day gimme your list of desirable traits for your potential mate.

Mine are:

1. Feminine (huge turn on)
2. Gorgeous smile (big, big turn on) woo-hoo!
3. Self-assured (huge turn on)
4. High self-esteem (huge turn on)
5. Great manners! (huge turn on)
6. Knows how and isn't afraid to say (I'm Sorry!)
7. Appreciates the fact that I open her doors, can do the laundry as well as she can, that I can put an engine together with my eyes closed, that I take out the trash, take care of the yard, the car and the home maintenance myself, that I can build dang near anything including a cabin in the woods and oh yeah, I really don't mind picking up her clothes wherever she happens to take them off! I actually consider picking her clothes up as one of my acts of love and devotion to her.
8. Doesn't even consider running when things aren't so rosey.
9. Realizes that at any given moment, I am capable of endless surprises and doesn't freak out when I want to do something on the spur of the moment!
10. She doesn't worry that I'll run off with the neighbor or some 18 year old blonde bimbo. She doesn't have to cause in my eyes she's perfect just the way she is!
11. Her smaller natural breasts suit me just fineeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Yeeeeeehaaww!
12. Is perfectly comfortable wearing dresses and skirts and blouses and enjoys getting all dolled up to go out yet is also just as comfy runnin through the house in short shorts or uhm, err, well . . . . . nekid! LOL

Hope y'all enjoy this thread!

Zman
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Old 02-14-2008, 12:16 PM
 
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how sweet! do you have any single older brothers or uncles with similar lists?

kind
honest
generous
listens (really listens)
talks
reads to me in bed
wakes up smiling
patient
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Old 02-14-2008, 12:28 PM
 
Location: makin' bacon
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good sense of humor
intelligent
honest
confident
adventurous
likes to watch football, or at least doesn't mind that I do
spontaneous
physically fit(doesn't have to be a body builder, but healthy)
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Old 02-14-2008, 12:54 PM
 
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Pulse - Check
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Old 02-14-2008, 01:18 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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lmmfao
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Old 02-14-2008, 03:26 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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She must love dogs
Must be feminine/girly
She must be competitive (wants to beat me at tennis, running, monopoly, scrabble, etc.)
Athletic
Cries while watching movies
Beautiful smile - with dimples
Does volunteer work or give to charities
Fond of literature and/or classical music
Confident
Being sassy and bit bitc#y.
Must be close to and have great relationship with her parents
Bilingual or Mulitlingual - Always a plus and shows she's educated
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Old 02-14-2008, 04:39 PM
 
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doesn't want kids
doesn't want marriage
loyal (while with me)
honest (if you don't want to be with me anymore just tell me).
likes sex

I like mostly FWB ^^
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Old 02-14-2008, 05:17 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Originally Posted by DaBeez View Post
She must love dogs
Must be feminine/girly
She must be competitive (wants to beat me at tennis, running, monopoly, scrabble, etc.)
Athletic
Cries while watching movies
Beautiful smile - with dimples
Does volunteer work or give to charities
Fond of literature and/or classical music
Confident
Being sassy and bit bitc#y.
Must be close to and have great relationship with her parents
Bilingual or Mulitlingual - Always a plus and shows she's educated
Sorry to quote myself but I just noticed something - I actually was lucky enough to marry the person who has all of these qualities. My wife is all of this and more. She actually speaks 6 languages.
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Old 02-15-2008, 06:13 AM
 
Location: MN
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great sense of humor
kind to all
love kids
loves animals
takes my breath away with a kiss
knows how to use everything he has
is self reliant
lets me be me
likes new people, places
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Old 02-15-2008, 06:34 AM
 
Location: Too far from the beach, NJ
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This is a fun thread!

I don't think I knew the important qualities until I actually met my man (I'd had crappy relationships previously), so I wasn't actively looking for them. But he's got 'em!!!

1. GREAT sense of humor (always makes me laugh)
2. Honest
3. Trust is most important to me, so I guess that's my thing. Second. And first.

Back off, he's mine...oh yeah, jealousy sucks..lol
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