Is it okay for a married woman to go to slumber parties? (wives, girlfriend)

[Pitt Chick]

Originally Posted by Petunia 100

There is something you don't know. Dead giveaways:

1. The frequency. None of the friends at these "slumber parties" have significant others or children? They all have plenty of time to do this 2 or 3 times per month?

2. The sudden on-set. Until 4 months ago, no slumber parties. Now, 2 or 3 per month. Hmm.

3. Her anger when you said you want to do the same.

She is not being honest about something.

I an leaning towards believing all this....

[klmrocks]

Originally Posted by Konceldur

I have a rather strange issue that perhaps to you isn't a big deal but I think it's really strange.

Some background: I am 28, wife is 26 and we have been married 2 years. We met at a previous job we both had and dated for 2 1/2 years before finally getting married.

Things have been pretty well all through out but from the title there is one thing that really bothers me. For the past 4 or so much she has been going to these slumber parties with her friends and she does it I would say 2 or 3 times a month. She will leave at 8 and not get back till 10 or 11 the next day. I brought up to her saying I don't have any trouble with her having girls night out even if late but having actual slumber parties seems a bit much and even kind of childish. She said I was making a big deal out of nothing and was just being jealous?

Anyway I decided to drop it and had some friends of my own that I haven't gotten to see much since I got married and thought hey while my wife is at her slumber party I could be staying over with my guy friends, not as a slumber party or even sleep just stay up late hanging out playing video games etc.

Well when I told my wife that she got furious, I asked her why it was okay for her to stay over all night with her girlfriends but it was wrong for me to do so with my guy friends. She responded with "guys don't have slumber parties". Which I never referred to it as but she did. It just really bugs me. I think either she should either stop with the whole slumber party thing or allow me to stay at my guy friends place when she has hers.

LOL ... I think it is a wicked idea. I missing slumber parties with my friends. I think the last one I went to was for a bachelorette party. It is not exactly what you might think it is. Men don't get this stuff. It is usually girls/women staying up late fooling around, talking, play games and having fun all night. Ohhhhh I miss slumber parties!!!! Good times. I think for just about all of my teen years to early 20s I was either sleeping over at a friends house or people where sleeping over at my house. Oh the mischief we would get up to. You wife is lucky she still has friends willing and able to do that stuff. My husband would not be cool with me sleeping over at friends houses now (he is a pain in the butt that way) so I get why you are unimpressed with the situation, but it likely a really fun break for her. I wish I had friends like your wife. Lucky lady!!! My friends don't want to do anything without their kids or husbands. When I want to get a break from my husband the last thing I want is to do is deal with someone else's husband. Women can not have the same level of fun and act as crazy and silly with men and their kids around.

[Harpaint]

A n adult woman going to a slumber party 3 times a month? STRANGE!! In Jr. High we didn't even have them more than 3 times a YEAR. Are her friends also married? The fact that she doesn't want you to hang with your friends makes me think she's been less than honest about what she and her friends are doing. Or maybe she is just still stuck in preteen/teen type activities.

[hawaiiancoconut]

So, all female orgy 3 times a month. Cool, Lol

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut

So, all female orgy 3 times a month. Cool, Lol

I think the couple should compromise...... He should be the referee LOL

[O.A.Bachlow]

You would> imagine that a woman would want to sleep with her husband. What is this stuff? Arrested female development. Just like a married man who has ten of his buddies over to drink beer and watch sports....hey...you are NOT in high school anymore.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by O.A.Bachlow

You would> imagine that a woman would want to sleep with her husband. What is this stuff? Arrested female development. Just like a married man who has ten of his buddies over to drink beer and watch sports....hey...you are NOT in high school anymore.

The odd night out of the blue is fine or even 3 nights out a month is not a problem surely?

Not this particular situation but in general, you don't have to be with each other for every second of every day do you? Personally I think it's essential to go out with your respective friends at at least once a week " to let off some steam " for a health relationship

[Konceldur]

All her friends are single and even a bit younger than her, some she also met at work. I know she's not sleeping around with men because on a few occasions she has forgotten something and asked me to bring it by. I've went and hear pop/rap music and these girls are all in their pjs and I have also seen alcohol.

As I said it wouldn't bother me as much if she would let me hang out with my friends.

[BirdieBelle]

"Let you"???

You're an adult. Just make plans and go.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by Konceldur

All her friends are single and even a bit younger than her, some she also met at work. I know she's not sleeping around with men because on a few occasions she has forgotten something and asked me to bring it by. I've went and hear pop/rap music and these girls are all in their pjs and I have also seen alcohol.

As I said it wouldn't bother me as much if she would let me hang out with my friends.

Awwwww don't be scared mate she's your wife..........We won't tell ( LMAO! )