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Originally Posted by Steanescarlett
Well, I do usually go to bed before him and will ask him to come spend some time with me a little bit before bed watching TV with me or talking and cuddling which is very important for me and he does. But I think if we go to bed together we should both go to bed. Usually I sleep till morning but it bothers me if I wake up earlier and he's not there.
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It may seem as if I am nit picking but I look to the future. What if we have children? I certainly wouldn't want my children looking at that kind of stuff, making my daughter think that's what grown women are like or my son thinking like that either.
He's great in all other ways but do men really need their 24/7 testosterone fix?
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Your bed/sleeping expectations is very childish. It's really not something to pout about, especially when he does do your requests to cuddle.
You say you look to the future... One very heavy possibility should be that you guys break up, and you find yourself another imperfect someone who's not a (hardcore) gamer. You're already moralizing the problem which shows you guys to be very incompatible.
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