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That's for you to decide. But I certainly wouldn't be leaning over to my friend and saying "OMG, they're crappy parents" or going to a board and complaining about the "crappy parents" I saw. That's the difference. Negative thoughts is one thing, saying those thoughts behind someone's back is something else. If I'm concerned for their feelings, which I agree one should be, don't say these things at all. Its mean to be said, whether they hear it or someone else hears it.
"Behind someone's back" shmack. I sure would say it to my husband. OMG that poor kid. Type 2 diabetes by the age of 10.
As you claim to be Black Democrat Childfree Atheist
So you like to be called N-word? Not?
Well, women who are called ugly by you are treated just as badly by you than black people are called by n-word. Calling someone ugly express negativity towards a person, non-acception, discrimination and despicing attitude. Ugly in this society is inhuman and kicked, unwanted another without respect.
If you don't accept to be treated unfair because your blackness = looks, why would you bully and misstreat women that are not your ideal? You don't actually have to bring up ugliness at all, people can choose their word to not insult those that they are not personally attracted to.
That is the main part why it is my favourite... Guys are biting their own leg...
There is no reason to call people ugly, that is bullying term.
Calling people ugly is insulting.
And everyone who becomes "ugly" to you is able to be pretty and ideal to someone else.
That is very poor example! A thoughtless insult on an internet forum is NOT comparable too slavery, institutional racism during reconstruction, or the jim crow laws of the south. The N-word, in the context you are using it, is symbolic of all this.
Thank you. Finally someone gives me some credit. People here think I'm a total monster. Sheesh!
I think you're wishing people thought more about you, period.
I am not seeing any great conspiracy against you specifically, Dissenter. Until you poke your face in to reach for the attention people don't mention you or anything.
I am only using ugly as an adjective for the purposes of Internet convos. I have to describe an appearance, what adjective do people want me to use? Ugly to me may well mean beautiful to someone else.
But when you do use it it's very revealing as to how you feel deep down (like it or not, "ugly" is a VERY negative word, usually a jeer...otherwise, "unattractive" or something equally simple would be used) and that almost certainly projects outward no matter how you try to hide it, which is the point so many of us have been trying to make with you and others who think disgusted, disdainful things about the opposite sex but wonder why they're getting nowhere with dating.
What would you think my opinion of men in general was if I said a certain man wasn't attractive to me? OTOH, what would you think if I said a man was an ugly dork with gross hair?
But when you do use it it's very revealing as to how you feel deep down (like it or not, "ugly" is a VERY negative word, usually a jeer...otherwise, "unattractive" or something equally simple would be used) and that almost certainly projects outward no matter how you try to hide it, which is the point so many of us have been trying to make with you and others who think disgusted, disdainful things about the opposite sex but wonder why they're getting nowhere with dating.
What would you think my opinion of men in general was if I said a certain man wasn't attractive to me? OTOH, what would you think if I said a man was an ugly dork with gross hair?
To be honest there would probably be a dude who would date you because he agrees with you.
People who say such things don't care what anyone thinks of them.
I wouldn't think such a thing because I am not that type of person regardless of what anyone else thinks of me.
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But when you do use it it's very revealing as to how you feel deep down (like it or not, "ugly" is a VERY negative word, usually a jeer...otherwise, "unattractive" or something equally simple would be used) and that almost certainly projects outward no matter how you try to hide it, which is the point so many of us have been trying to make with you and others who think disgusted, disdainful things about the opposite sex but wonder why they're getting nowhere with dating.
What would you think my opinion of men in general was if I said a certain man wasn't attractive to me? OTOH, what would you think if I said a man was an ugly dork with gross hair?
The only thing I would think is you don't like THAT guy.Why would I make the leap to think you are talking about all men when you are describing only one guy?
Calling someone the N word is FAR more serious matter than calling someone who you aren't physically attracted to ugly.
Just keep telling yourself those lies, it makes you justify your bullying and you can keep going.
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I am only using ugly as an adjective for the purposes of Internet convos. I have to describe an appearance, what adjective do people want me to use? Ugly to me may well mean beautiful to someone else.
You must know that young women are committing suicides because they are called ugly, fat etc. (as well as men)
What this hypocrite social media and society does? Keep calling them ugly and blames the victim to have too thin skin.
When people are going to take bullying seriously? When people are going to finally stop it? Why anyone should become called ugly? Why people are expressing their dislike towards other people by the ways that they are committing suicides?
I am only using ugly as an adjective for the purposes of Internet convos. I have to describe an appearance, what adjective do people want me to use? Ugly to me may well mean beautiful to someone else.
Try "less attractive".
And how about "rejects"? Surely you can find a better way to think of them than that.
It's not the fact that you use the words. It's the fact that the words represent how you feel about them.
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