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Old 05-12-2016, 07:29 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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lol just look at them.

I do from time to time, it can be fun. Buying them is most likely a very terrible idea. Lot of police stings and STDs, then again... probably not too much different than your average girl at a night club lol.

Yeah, go to a club... the women there are about equal to escorts.
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Old 05-12-2016, 07:31 PM
 
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OP, after you finish your training program, please consider putting some time into counseling, to get at the root of your issues, and heal whatever's at the bottom of it. Good guess: parental issues in early childhood. That's usually what causes trust issues and anxiety. Heck, the anxiety could even bee a low-grade residual PTSD from whatever happened when you were a little kid.

If you can get to the bottom of the root cause, and resolve it, you won't need meds anymore, and life will begin falling into place a bit better. You're worth it! You deserve happiness.
The root of his issue is being a 25 year old guy and no sex. What do you think causes anxiety and a short temper? lol.
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Old 05-12-2016, 07:43 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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The root of his issue is being a 25 year old guy and no sex. What do you think causes anxiety and a short temper? lol.
No, he cited trust issues and anxiety and temper as the cause of his not having had any relationships, not the result. He said he tried to kill himself when he was younger. That, in addition to the other, indicates major psych issues. Having sex wouldn't resolve his suicidal tendencies and anxiety.
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Old 05-13-2016, 08:08 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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If you have the disposable income then try one! Try EROS and then search for reviews on them. Also, use a condom. I am friends with an escort. She lives in SoHo (NYC) in a 5K a month apartment and travels to Europe with her rich friends. She is an art collector for rich people.
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Old 05-13-2016, 11:03 AM
 
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If you're going to do it, make sure you play it safe. You can back search the pictures through google and there's a website where you can search up the number.
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Old 05-13-2016, 04:26 PM
 
Location: The South
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I'm 25 and never had sex. Long story short: major trust issues, short temper and anxiety. Tried to kill myself while in college and I still take meds.

Average looks, regular body even though I work out twice or three times a week. I'm currently in a very demanding trainee programme in a major energy company and I'm really tired when I get home. That's exactly when my sex drive is higher.

I started looking at escort ads about 3 years ago but never acted on it. If I like one of the women, I look at the pictures over and over again. It's the first thing I do when I get home. But then it's so expensive I eventually give up on the idea (we're not talking about random, low class prostitutes, you have to pay well for these). I think how many other things I want to buy, that I want to save for that trip abroad, etc.

Is this bad? I thought this would go away but it hasn't.
Yes, it's bad. Learn how to be open. Learn how to discern between trustworthy people and untrustworthy people. Get social. Make friends. Know that people will disappoint you, they are not God. And please, don't spend any money on whores. They will trick you.
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Old 05-13-2016, 04:28 PM
 
Location: The South
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No, he cited trust issues and anxiety and temper as the cause of his not having had any relationships, not the result. He said he tried to kill himself when he was younger. That, in addition to the other, indicates major psych issues. Having sex wouldn't resolve his suicidal tendencies and anxiety.
Ruth, what are we going to do? SMH!
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Old 05-13-2016, 04:29 PM
 
Location: Ralphs
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I'm 25 and never had sex. Long story short: major trust issues, short temper and anxiety. Tried to kill myself while in college and I still take meds.

Average looks, regular body even though I work out twice or three times a week. I'm currently in a very demanding trainee programme in a major energy company and I'm really tired when I get home. That's exactly when my sex drive is higher.

I started looking at escort ads about 3 years ago but never acted on it. If I like one of the women, I look at the pictures over and over again. It's the first thing I do when I get home. But then it's so expensive I eventually give up on the idea (we're not talking about random, low class prostitutes, you have to pay well for these). I think how many other things I want to buy, that I want to save for that trip abroad, etc.

Is this bad? I thought this would go away but it hasn't.
Well, as a guy who actually thinks prostitution should be legal, I would advise you that the amount of time you think about it is probably abnormal. Given your background and the suicide attempt, I'd think a lot of therapy is in order here. Are you in therapy now? If not, do you have the resources to see one?
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Old 05-13-2016, 05:07 PM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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I think you're overestimating what being with an escort will do for you OP. It may end up in disappointment for one reason or another, and a major one if it does because you've obsessed about it so.


Counseling would be a great idea, as many other people have said. Please get yourself some help.
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Old 05-13-2016, 10:24 PM
 
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I'm 25 and never had sex. Long story short: major trust issues, short temper and anxiety. Tried to kill myself while in college and I still take meds.

Average looks, regular body even though I work out twice or three times a week. I'm currently in a very demanding trainee programme in a major energy company and I'm really tired when I get home. That's exactly when my sex drive is higher.

I started looking at escort ads about 3 years ago but never acted on it. If I like one of the women, I look at the pictures over and over again. It's the first thing I do when I get home. But then it's so expensive I eventually give up on the idea (we're not talking about random, low class prostitutes, you have to pay well for these). I think how many other things I want to buy, that I want to save for that trip abroad, etc.

Is this bad? I thought this would go away but it hasn't.
in other words you are a typical 25 year old with anger issues, and you need someone to help you through this time in your life. i got over my anger issues a long time ago, and i did it myself without using drugs or alcohol. you need to figure a way to do that as well.
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