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Old 05-12-2016, 08:46 PM
 
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You're handsome but you have one heck of an "it puts the lotion on its skin" or "I'm very...very...VERY lonely" (Singles reference) look on your face. You even appear to be looming forward.

Smile!

Give a little smile.

And then try again.
I think its just the picture.

He's probably a little more laid back. I could see him coming off pretty nervous around women.
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Old 05-12-2016, 08:47 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Its not your overall looks, guy. Ive seen much much worse with pretty. I can see how the shuddering might turn off women, but I'm sure there's a pill to control that.
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Old 05-12-2016, 08:47 PM
 
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no guarantee of that of course..but doing that definitely increases the chances.
Yeah, never about a guarantee...
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Old 05-12-2016, 08:49 PM
 
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I think its just the picture.

He's probably a little more laid back. I could see him coming off pretty nervous around women.
That's what I figure. The facial "look" in the picture is just too intense and not at all happy. OP, I'd take another one smiling...if you're uncomfortable smiling directly into the camera, make yourself laugh and snap off a bunch of shots, pick one...or do a 3/4 view with at least a bit of a smile, or some sort of relaxation/fun going on.
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Old 05-12-2016, 08:50 PM
 
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What's scarier is that people automatically assume as truth the pictures posted on forums by strangers.
Actually, it's against TOS to accuse someone of lying/making things up, AFAIK.

So most of us don't do it or if we do, we try to be subtle, LOL.

The truth is that this is the internet. Anyone could be lying...about anything...at any time. If all we did was accuse one another of lying nothing would ever get done, LOL. There's no actual way to vet any of this.
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Old 05-12-2016, 09:08 PM
 
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You're handsome but you have one heck of an "it puts the lotion on its skin" or "I'm very...very...VERY lonely" (Singles reference) look on your face. You even appear to be looming forward.

Smile!

Give a little smile.

And then try again.
Nice - equating someone with a terrible fictional serial killer. WTF?
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Old 05-12-2016, 11:24 PM
 
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Women don't want nice guys, you now pushup over guys and agree to everything. You have to be confident and kind of a***ish, just a hint of it.
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Old 05-12-2016, 11:33 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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Women don't want nice guys, you now pushup over guys and agree to everything. You have to be confident and kind of a***ish, just a hint of it.

We do like nice guys but all guys who label themselves as such are NOT necessarily "nice guys".


There are a lot of not-so-nice "nice" guys who are low-key controlling, manipulative, emotionally abusive, etc.
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Old 05-12-2016, 11:50 PM
 
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We do like nice guys but all guys who label themselves as such are NOT necessarily "nice guys".


There are a lot of not-so-nice "nice" guys who are low-key controlling, manipulative, emotionally abusive, etc.

Yeah you are partly correctly however with True Forced Loneliness men that's not the case. Women don't like nice guys, unless women want to dominate men. Women usually end up with the bad boys. Look at the black community where black women sleep with mostly thugs, same goes with white women.

Btw you do not speak for most women let alone all women.
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Old 05-12-2016, 11:54 PM
 
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Yeah you are partly correctly however with True Forced Loneliness men that's not the case. Women don't like nice guys, unless women want to dominate men. Women usually end up with the bad boys. Look at the black community where black women sleep with mostly thugs, same goes with white women.

Btw you do not speak for most women let alone all women.
And you should not speak for any women! Please leave race out of your statements as well! It makes you look ignorant.
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