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See her as soon as you can. I think what people are getting at is that you two have had like 500 days to idealize each other. Sometimes two people correspond like this and click when they meet, but that's mostly coincidence.
You don't really start to know a person until you spend time together and let all of your senses form impressions.
I don't know. It kind of feels like you waited too long.
You can certainly give it a shot at this point but I'd be VERY clear, no more beating around the bush. Women, like men, will absolutely lose interest over time, and I don't know whether your friend is like this but I know for me, if I'm not clearly feeling anything reciprocal regarding certain feelings then the feelings just sort of die. Again, not saying your friend is absolutely like this but 15 months is a heck of a long time. If you still want to, give it this one shot, this one time and be clear about what you want.
Too much time may have passed in this situation. You made it clear that you were involved with school, but you really need to maximize every opportunity since you never know what the future holds. Her comments about you should be viewed as encouraging and it may yet work out ... however, please be realistic because this is not a slam dunk by any means.
i've known several different couples who just messaged each other or wrote sporadically on and off for over a year or even more (with one couple it was over two years) and then finally when they did get around to meeting they ended up dating seriously, and ended up getting married
so it's not necessarily a bad thing to have a long time elapse. it can work in your favor. you both have stuck around long enough and are still interested in meeting, that is a good sign. people can not-yet-meet for a variety of reasons: school, work, not available to date, seeing someone else, just got out of a relationship and need time before dating again
i think it is much more of a red flag if someone pushes to see me right away, quickly, because then i feel pressured. if they are willing to take it a relaxed pace, no pressure, and are still interested in actually meeting me one or two years down the road, that to me is a positive sign.
Even though it's been 15 months at least you got to know her somewhat on a mental level now it's time for you to step up your game send her cards & Roses save up money to fly her out to see you show her you're ready to step up to the plate your not a average guy. Start figuring out what kind of King she is looking for and make sure she is ready to be your Princess that you need it's know or never you have to show her that you are not Basic and like the men in her past or present . That you will be her king and truly take time out to learn to love her heart like she would want you to , let her know that your going to secure all that she needs from you as her man and eventhing else will fall into place, dont worry about how long it's been just focus on the future and what you want it to be.
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