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Old 05-21-2016, 02:57 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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If you ever met face to face with your boyfriend's other lover, how would it feel? I had a friend who dealt with something of this similar situation. She found out that her boyfriend was cheating on her for two years. She was enraged, and full of rage. She could not believe what was going on. She later confronted the woman that he was sleeping with. Have you ever dealt with something like this?
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Old 05-21-2016, 03:08 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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If you ever met face to face with your boyfriend's other lover, how would it feel? I had a friend who dealt with something of this similar situation. She found out that her boyfriend was cheating on her for two years. She was enraged, and full of rage. She could not believe what was going on. She later confronted the woman that he was sleeping with. Have you ever dealt with something like this?
Nope I've not been in that situation.

But to be honest I wouldn't even approach the other bloke she cheated with ( unless he was a friend or I knew him I'd hurt him for taking the p out of me ) id dump her on the spot and tell her she's made her choice bye bye etc etc.

Did the other woman know that he had a girlfriend out of interest?.
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Old 05-21-2016, 03:10 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I honestly wish I had been in a situation where I met my cheating ex partner's lover. I'd thank him and buy him a few beers. Im not even joking.
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Old 05-21-2016, 03:12 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Nope I've not been in that situation.

But to be honest I wouldn't even approach the other bloke she cheated with ( unless he was a friend or I knew him I'd hurt him for taking the p out of me ) id dump her on the spot and tell her she's made her choice bye bye etc etc.

Did the other woman know that he had a girlfriend out of interest?.
She knew. She's been stealing men from other women for years, as told by one of my other friends.
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Old 05-21-2016, 03:16 PM
 
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She can't steal men unless they are willing to be stolen. It takes 2.

Why on earth would you want to confront the woman? The issue is not her.
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Old 05-21-2016, 03:21 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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She knew. She's been stealing men from other women for years, as told by one of my other friends.
Are they still together? Or has she " stolen " him?

Personally I would have kicked him out there and then
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Old 05-21-2016, 03:22 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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She can't steal men unless they are willing to be stolen. It takes 2.

Why on earth would you want to confront the woman? The issue is not her.
Yeah exactly
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Old 05-21-2016, 05:42 PM
 
Location: SW MO
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If you ever met face to face with your boyfriend's other lover, how would it feel? I had a friend who dealt with something of this similar situation. She found out that her boyfriend was cheating on her for two years. She was enraged, and full of rage. She could not believe what was going on. She later confronted the woman that he was sleeping with. Have you ever dealt with something like this?
Wouldn't ever happen. If I found out she had someone else while we were ostensibly together it would be a "Seeyoulaterbye!" situation. He could have her. I simply wouldn't care.
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Old 05-21-2016, 05:44 PM
 
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She can't steal men unless they are willing to be stolen. It takes 2.

Why on earth would you want to confront the woman? The issue is not her.
Agreed! Your friend needs to confront her boyfriend. It's not as if he is a helpless baby that's being stolen!
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Old 05-21-2016, 06:21 PM
 
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Agreed! Your friend needs to confront her boyfriend. It's not as if he is a helpless baby that's being stolen!
Who knows what he even told the other woman! I remember when I was really young (early 20s), this guy told me he had broken it off with his fiancee and that it was over for good. I don't think that was actually true because at some point later (I think I had long since moved on), the fiancee called to "confront" me about my relationship with with the guy.
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