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I'm fairly certain that if she put her foot down with the ex, his "visits to her family" would stop.
I'm glad you are so sure of that.
OP was apparently gone for over 3 years.
Neither you nor I know whether or not the ex was visiting all the time she was gone and is simply keeping up that habit.
She certainly does have the right to tell him to leave her alone.
He can be in the house but not my bedroom. And if my new spouse and I were having sex while he's in the house then who cares, he's not Allowed in the bedroom lol
At your home? My ex spouse is still friends with one of my family members so he pops up at our home maybe once a week. Recently, I moved back home and have been here for 5/6 months now, but this is
the most awkward thing. We are divorced with no children. Recently, he popped up at my house and was invited in by my family who he is still friends with, and decided to knock on my bedroom door asking me to open the door. I see that he is still crazy. The nerve. First off, I never invited him over, we arent together and I have been moved on. What if I was in my bedroom having sex with my new spouse of the past four years. I dont even like people who I am cool with to pop up at my home.
do you allow people to just pop up at your house?
If you are old enough to have married TWICE, you are too old to live with your parents. Get your own place.
He can be in the house but not my bedroom. And if my new spouse and I were having sex while he's in the house then who cares, he's not Allowed in the bedroom lol
I'd do it on purpose if I were the OP!!!!....... At least he wouldn't pop around again LOL
At your home? My ex spouse is still friends with one of my family members so he pops up at our home maybe once a week. Recently, I moved back home and have been here for 5/6 months now, but this is
the most awkward thing. We are divorced with no children. Recently, he popped up at my house and was invited in by my family who he is still friends with, and decided to knock on my bedroom door asking me to open the door. I see that he is still crazy. The nerve. First off, I never invited him over, we arent together and I have been moved on. What if I was in my bedroom having sex with my new spouse of the past four years. I dont even like people who I am cool with to pop up at my home.
do you allow people to just pop up at your house?
No. I wouldn't be shiny , at all, with this. My ex knows, she does me a kindness, one of very few, by not letting me know she's still breathing. She has reached out, but I rebuke her, harshly. There is zero reason for us to interact, at all. Ex is ex, for a reason.
At your home? My ex spouse is still friends with one of my family members so he pops up at our home maybe once a week. Recently, I moved back home and have been here for 5/6 months now, but this is
the most awkward thing. We are divorced with no children. Recently, he popped up at my house and was invited in by my family who he is still friends with, and decided to knock on my bedroom door asking me to open the door. I see that he is still crazy. The nerve. First off, I never invited him over, we arent together and I have been moved on. What if I was in my bedroom having sex with my new spouse of the past four years. I dont even like people who I am cool with to pop up at my home.
do you allow people to just pop up at your house?
Hmmm. Sorry, no sympathy here. You are an adult (presumably) and you and your new spouse of four years live with mommy and daddy. They are still friends with your ex, which is their choice. Just because you don't like him doesn't meant they don't. If you choose to have sex under mommy and daddys roof, you should expect mom and dad, brothers and sisters and all sorts of people to possibly catch you having sex. It's THEIR house not "Your House" as you say.
Oh man, just the thought of this is absolutely horrifying. Pop-ins in themselves are the worst, regardless of who it is. But an ex, oh hell naw! I'd maybe get one of those hotel signs for my door that say "Do Not Disturb" . . .
That's why I go out of my way to avoid my ex. Boundaries are a beautiful thing.
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LOL
I'd maybe get one of those hotel signs for my door that say "Do Not Disturb" . . .
