I'm back... With an Overreaction?

[Inkpoe]

Originally Posted by kristen12

He texted me and apologized, work had been crazy. I was freaking out for nothing, which is something I tend to do.
Just wish I could freak out less and know when I actually have a reason to be worried.

Don't worry, you'll freak out again and be confused soon enough. Oh, you wish you could freak out less and all? Well, there's an answer to that wish and it's been said many times over in this thread and others. You must not be wishing hard enough...

Done and out.

[Mikelee81]

The guy is not going to lose interest in you because you messed around with him for a bit. I don't know why people are saying that.

It's obvious that he likes you.

I agree that you might be overreacting and it might be best for you just to relax. It sounds like you may have met a good guy.

Show him you like him and invite him to like you, and you might have a very nice relationship there. I certainly wouldn't think less of a lady if we got all heated up in the moment. I'd be more inclined to be sensitive to her needs and the situation though as that is taking things to another level. I wouldn't want to hurt her emotionally.

[kristen12]

His communication has improved, that was definetly an overreaction. He informed me on Monday work was going to be busy this week.

However, he always makes plans with me a few days in advance for what day we will do something. So far he hasn't asked me out this weekend and tomorrow is Thursday. We were being a little sexual tonight over text (which he has never done) and it wasn't even bad he was just saying he really liked what happened when we got physical.. And then he said to come over and do it again... As in earlier tonight. I didn't know if he was serious or just saying it to make the conversation more playful.

Should I ask him tomorrow if there's any plans this weekend or just leave it? He's initiated all 3 of our dates.... Should I just see if he says anything or should I bring it up myself?