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WHhhaaa?? Hate to ask..and he's a straight guy? Wow...ya never know.
I actually never had an experience so extreme. Usually, it is just either yay or nay, leading to more or not, but once many years ago, a guy in the apartment building I was in at the time asked me out on a daytime date. I kind of liked him from visiting in the building, enjoyed the same music, etc. (A lot of young, single people lived there and was kind of a "party" building). I said yes.
It turned out to be a "company picnic" of sorts and on the way, picked up a friend if his too , they stopped and bought hamburger meat, a few items. Anyway, we arrived at a park where there were people scattered everywhere. I was asked to make burgers for the three of us.. which I was unprepared to do, on a nearby grill. After I walked away to clean up, I returned to be asked to "make them another"... Some "date" (I mean, this is not the way to cook and was not as experienced then.. we had nothing with us to prepare food, I hadn't known what to expect... argghh. I should have just said "forget it").
On the way home they wanted to stop at another guy's home.. people I did not know.. I was already unhappy, uncomfortable, sunburned, quiet (not usual for me).. and recall another guy being obnoxious and offensive. After we finally returned home, this neighbor who had treated me to "such a lovely time"...tried to kiss me... oh, yeah.. unreal. The next day, another guy I had gone out with had asked me out, picking me up. On the way out of the apartment, walking hand in hand past the sunbathers, that neighbor appeared stunned, as I just walked by him, smiling.
Anyway, I mention since you reminded me.. I think that was the worst one I ever had. Men I had normally dated knew what to do and how to treat someone, had class - (plus as I matured, I had a better sense about whom I accepted dates with, not that it always led to longer-term, either).
Wow! These people live among us, have jobs and function?! Your experience is a creepy as mine.
The guy I dated is straight. But you never know? He was a non-practicing attorney and taught Real Estate classes. He has more "friends" on FB than some of my favorite musicians.
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