Have you ever cheated on your husband/wife and got caught? (marriage, cheater)

[Hotbloodedwoman]

Ooooohhhh....juicy

[Chowhound]

I never cheated on any woman that was my gf. I've never been cheated on that I know of.

[klmrocks]

I have never actually physically cheated on my husband or would want to. I know of a few situations where people have cheated and got caught by the other person seeing text messages or e-mails. To my surprise some of these people actually take their partners back and other's end it in divorce. Why go there and hurt someone? That is the ultimate betrayal. I wish people would just try and have different experiences with their partners or just end it before cheating.

[Auraliea]

I don't understand the purpose of this question.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by Auraliea

I don't understand the purpose of this question.

To work out if he will get caught

[Hotbloodedwoman]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

To work out if he will get caught

That's what I was thinking too! Sneaky rump!

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by hotbloodedwoman

that's what i was thinking too! Sneaky rump!

.......... lol

[MoonBeam33]

Originally Posted by UrbanLuis

How did you get caught? And did you lose your partner because of it?

Nope, but my ex-husband did. And yes, he lost his partner (me) because of it and many other reasons.

[UrbanLuis]

Thanks for the replies.

Originally Posted by zentropa

You must be new here! Welcome.

Thanks. Yes I new in this section of the forum.

[UrbanLuis]

Originally Posted by klmrocks

I have never actually physically cheated on my husband or would want to. I know of a few situations where people have cheated and got caught by the other person seeing text messages or e-mails. To my surprise some of these people actually take their partners back and other's end it in divorce. Why go there and hurt someone? That is the ultimate betrayal. I wish people would just try and have different experiences with their partners or just end it before cheating.

Physically cheated? Does that mean you cheated in other ways? Flirting via text or email?

I don't see anything wrong with forgiving your partner for that, but it really depends how it happened. If it was a one time thing then I don't see why you couldn't be forgiven. If it was an on going affair, that is more serious.

Its not always so simple, you cheat and still love your wife. I have never cheated but this topic came up and I wanted to hear other peoples opinions.