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Originally Posted by Jersey4Life
I didn't tell her that. But if the topic comes up if we met or through texting what am I supposed to say? I wouldn't want to lie to her.
Uh, dude, almost no one ever asks things like "have you dated much?"... you have to give someone a reason to ask something like that. Why the heck are you stressing about what might happen? Good grief, dating is about having fun. Go have fun.
Uh, dude, almost no one ever asks things like "have you dated much?"... you have to give someone a reason to ask something like that. Why the heck are you stressing about what might happen? Good grief, dating is about having fun. Go have fun.
I've had that happen like 4 times with women I was chatting with through OLD where they would ask when my last relationship was & other things just through texting. So it does happen more than you realize.
They may ask when your last relationship was to find out if you're on the rebound after recently ending a long relationship. Asked about other things, maybe what are your experiences with OLD, just because some of us like to share funny or embarrassing stories.
Don't ask her experience with younger men. She may not have any, surely she knows how old you are, due to your hesitancy and slower approach she thinks she's safe not getting POUNCED on the minute you meet. You were attracted to her, she wouldn't have bothered messaging you if she wasn't attracted to you. This was her idea.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I've had that happen like 4 times with women I was chatting with through OLD where they would ask when my last relationship was & other things just through texting. So it does happen more than you realize.
Sure, they ask that on rare occasion, no biggie. But they never ask how much you've dated.
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They may ask when your last relationship was to find out if you're on the rebound after recently ending a long relationship. [/i]
Exactly. Say its been good awhile, and I'm over the person. End of story. Whatever.
I've had that happen like 4 times with women I was chatting with through OLD where they would ask when my last relationship was & other things just through texting. So it does happen more than you realize.
I don't think I've ever NOT been asked when my last relationship ended and how long it was, unless I was "chatting" with someone just looking for sex.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I don't think I've ever NOT been asked when my last relationship ended and how long it was, unless I was "chatting" with someone just looking for sex.
I honestly can't say I can recall being asked that in many years before meeting someone. I can understand if someone is trying to figure out if one is on a rebound, but that information doesn't help one determine if that is the case.
They may ask when your last relationship was to find out if you're on the rebound after recently ending a long relationship. Asked about other things, maybe what are your experiences with OLD, just because some of us like to share funny or embarrassing stories.
Don't ask her experience with younger men. She may not have any, surely she knows how old you are, due to your hesitancy and slower approach she thinks she's safe not getting POUNCED on the minute you meet. You were attracted to her, she wouldn't have bothered messaging you if she wasn't attracted to you. This was her idea.
True. It's been 5 hours & still no reply back yet to know one way or another. And I wouldn't ask her about her experience with younger guys. Obviously I'm sure she's been with some younger guys if she's messaging me when I'm 10+ years younger than her.
Sure, they ask that on rare occasion, no biggie. But they never ask how much you've dated.
Exactly. Say its been good awhile, and I'm over the person. End of story. Whatever.
lol but that would be lying. I would just dislike having to lie to them even if telling them the truth turns them off. Also, I've never had sex yet either so that's another thing. I've had multiple offers to have sex in the past with different women but the circumstances at the time weren't good or it just didn't feel right to.
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lol but that would be lying. I would just dislike having to lie to them even if telling them the truth turns them off. Also, I've never had sex yet either so that's another thing. I've had multiple offers to have sex in the past with different women but the circumstances at the time weren't good or it just didn't feel right to.
Dude, how old are you?
But don't worry about things that haven't happened yet. Don't **** block yourself, ever.
But don't worry about things that haven't happened yet. Don't **** block yourself, ever.
I'm 30. A few years ago some woman flat out said she wanted to have sex with me but I pretty much screwed that up since I made excuses to myself thinking she lived too far & other things. Than there were some other offers that were a bit sketchy like a threesome with a woman & her husband that lived nearby. I'm just thinking like no thanks to that. Think there were 1 or 2 other situations where I could have but didn't.
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